Consolation when in a state of mortal sin

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I was just curious, how does everyone find consolation when they are in a state of mortal sin and can’t get to confession. I can’t at all, thoughts of death just seem to cunsome me. I just am constantly worried about the possibility of hell, almost penalized by fear. My parish is the only one in the county and they only have confessions for 15 minutes on Saturday. It’s hard to get there sometimes, I have a newborn baby, and the pastor has cancer and is struggling with sickness. I just can’t seem to get any consolation when in a state of mortal sin, even though I am truly sorry for my sins. I see Bishop Barron’s videos which say we don’t know the limits of God’s mercy, and we can’t be sure if anyone is in hell, and then I see traditionalist Catholics that say no matter the circumstance of you die with a mortal sin on your soul (it doesn’t matter if you intended to go to confession and just didn’t get there in time) you go to hell. I’m usually Aristotelian in many ways, trying to judge the median, but for some reason the fear of hell is seeming to paralyze me and my spiritual life. So any suggestions?
 
… I see traditionalist Catholics that say no matter the circumstance of you die with a mortal sin on your soul (it doesn’t matter if you intended to go to confession and just didn’t get there in time) you go to hell.
I don’t know who you are referring to, but they do not sound like “traditionalist Catholics.”

If we have sinned, we should say an Act of Contrition and go to Confession as soon as possible. God does not demand the impossible.

Catechism of the Catholic Church:
1484 "Individual, integral confession and absolution remain the only ordinary way for the faithful to reconcile themselves with God and the Church, unless physical or moral impossibility excuses from this kind of confession."95 There are profound reasons for this. Christ is at work in each of the sacraments. He personally addresses every sinner: "My son, your sins are forgiven."96 He is the physician tending each one of the sick who need him to cure them.97 He raises them up and reintegrates them into fraternal communion. Personal confession is thus the form most expressive of reconciliation with God and with the Church.
Colin Donovan on not being able to get to Confession:
ewtn.com/v/experts/showmessage_print.asp?number=310635&language=en

Perfect and Imperfect Contrition:
dailycatholic.org/issue/2002Apr/apr25cat.htm
 
I was just curious, how does everyone find consolation when they are in a state of mortal sin and can’t get to confession. I can’t at all, thoughts of death just seem to cunsome me. I just am constantly worried about the possibility of hell, almost penalized by fear. My parish is the only one in the county and they only have confessions for 15 minutes on Saturday. It’s hard to get there sometimes, I have a newborn baby, and the pastor has cancer and is struggling with sickness. I just can’t seem to get any consolation when in a state of mortal sin, even though I am truly sorry for my sins. I see Bishop Barron’s videos which say we don’t know the limits of God’s mercy, and we can’t be sure if anyone is in hell, and then I see traditionalist Catholics that say no matter the circumstance of you die with a mortal sin on your soul (it doesn’t matter if you intended to go to confession and just didn’t get there in time) you go to hell. I’m usually Aristotelian in many ways, trying to judge the median, but for some reason the fear of hell is seeming to paralyze me and my spiritual life. So any suggestions?
Sr. Josefa Menendez (1890-1923) -Jesus’ Message to the World of His Mercy for All

“I would like these [those living with sin] to understand that it is not the fact of being in sin that ought to keep them from Me. They must never think that there is no remedy for them, nor that they have forfeited for ever the love that once was theirs… No, poor souls, the God who has shed all His Blood for you has no such feelings for you!”

“It is My intention also, to show souls that I never refuse grace, even to those who are guilty of grave sin; nor do I separate them from the good souls whom I love with predilection. I keep them all in My Heart, that all may receive the help needed for their state of soul.” -Jesus to Sr. Josefa Menendez
mysticsofthechurch.com/2009/12/sister-josefa-menendez-way-of-divine.html

Prayer to the Shoulder Wound of Jesus:

It is related in the annals of Clairvaux that St. Bernard asked Our Lord which was His greatest unrecorded suffering and Our Lord answered: “I had on My Shoulder, while I bore My Cross on the Way of Sorrows, a grievous Wound, which was more painful than the others and which is not recorded by men. Honor this Wound with thy devotion and I will grant thee whatsoever thou dost ask through Its virtue and merit. And in regard to all those who shall venerate this Wound, I will remit to them all their venial sins and will no longer remember their mortal sins.”

This revelation and promise of Our Dear Savior is another proof of His unlimited mercy. You are urged to say these prayers daily and to promulgate this prayer on a continuous basis, so that others may share in this blessing.

The Prayer

O Loving Jesus, meek Lamb of God, I a miserable sinner, salute and worship the most Sacred Wound of Thy Shoulder on which Thou didst bear Thy heavy Cross, which so tore Thy Flesh and laid bare Thy Bones as to inflict on Thee an anguish greater than any other Wound of Thy Most Blessed Body. I adore Thee, O Jesus most sorrowful; I praise and glorify Thee and give Thee thanks for this most sacred and painful Wound, beseeching Thee by that exceeding pain and by the crushing burden of Thy heavy Cross to be merciful to me, a sinner, to forgive me all my mortal and venial sins, and to lead me on towards Heaven along the Way of Thy Cross. Amen.

Imprimatur: Thomas D. Beven, Bishop of Springfield, Ma.

Pope Eugenius III, at the earnest request of St. Bernard, has granted three thousand years Indulgence to all who with a contrite heart, recite the Lord’s Prayer and Hail Mary 3 times, in honor of the Wound on the Shoulder of Our Blessed Redeemer.brizek.com/prayer/pieta.htm
 
As the Catechism says, “Only God Forgives Sin.”

It also says that Jesus gave the power to forgive sin to the Apostles and their successors.

However, understand that this doesn’t exclude God’s forgiveness which we must seek first, otherwise, Confession becomes more of a superstitious act.

So, when you realize you have sinned and offended God, first off, turn to Him and ask for his mercy.

Go to confession when you are able to.

As stated in a prior post, God doesn’t expect us to do the impossible.

Be at peace and know that Christ came and died for us, even while we were in sin.

Let that be a sign of God’s great mercy.

Jim
 
Repent of your sins and trust in God’s mercy. Go to confession as soon as possible. If the ordinary times for confession don’t work, try to schedule one outside the ordinary times. Either way, Trust in God’s mercy and focus on his eternal love for you, not on your past failure which you cannot change. Your sins do not change his love for you.
 
JamesAnthony,

Trust in the God of consolations, not in the consolations of God. Faith is not a feeling.

If you are repentant of your sins and truly intend to confess your sin as soon as possible, trust in the Mercy of God. Do not walk around in fear. The Bible pronounces “Be not afraid” 365 times - once for each day of the year! As I said, faith is not a feeling - neither a good feeling nor a bad feeling: those feelings of guilt, shame, and especially fear are not of God. The feeling of fear serves only to paralysis you from fulfilling your duties to God, duties which include loving God, prayer, etc.

Yes, you are a sinner. Yes, you are guilty and need to go to Confession. No, you need not be so bent down by guilt and fear that you cannot look up to see the road before you. Do your best and let God do His. Place your fears and concerns in His hands and let it go.

Be at peace.
 
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