I agree, and so does the Catholic church. It has to do with intent as well. This is why the church declared the Assyrian Church of the East to have a valid anaphora. But is also why Anglican Orders were considered invalid because the orthodox understanding and intent of ordination was lost. This doesn’t mean as you say in a mysterious way God doesn’t work through their ‘sacraments’. Only God knows.
The Bull was based on the fact that the ordination rite didn’t make reference to the sacrificial priesthood. Coincidently, either do any of the Eastern Churches, including the Assyrian Church of the East.
I fully believe this is just cherry picking. I don’t see why we should be forced to make special categorizations for different churches just because you do.
All who are not Orthodox are correctly classified non-Orthodox. We have no tradition, or teaching on how God works within these churches. We have no need to classify them, so we don’t.
But to not acknowledge the closeness of the Catholic and EO sacramental understanding, practice and history is silly IMO. But, we will never agree on this. I think the catholic church has a better and more honest theological framework than the EO who tend IMO to avoid certain doctrinal questions. It’s not honest to lump Catholics with Mormons or even Anglicans in our ecumenical realations.
But I don’t think we do have a closeness of understanding. While we all agree that those seven things (for lack of a better word) are sacraments, we don’t agree on why. To the Catholic Church, “the sacraments are efficacious signs of grace, instituted by Christ and entrusted to the Church, by which divine life is dispensed to us. The visible rites by which the sacraments are celebrated signify and make present the graces proper to each sacrament. They bear fruit in those who receive them with the required dispositions.” (CCC).
According to the Orthodox Church they are those things by which we may become closer to God. The Seven Sacraments which Catholics accept are all acknowledged to be sacramental to us. We know they are at work within our own Church.
I am convinced (as I said before), as are many North American Orthodox, that God reaches out to all Christians in a sacramental way.
I do not know if the big seven are valid among Catholics, my opinion would be that some are, most probably are, and some I’m not sure of.
The validity of sacraments is, however, an esoteric concept.
When you go to Communion, approach the chalice with fear and trembling.
When you go to confession, tell all your sins.
When you get married, trust that you have been joined before God.
And don’t worry about the fact that we don’t know if it is truly a sacrament. Let God decide.
If the Churches were to be united in faith, we would certainly recognize what you have as sacramental, but before that time, you’ll have to be content with our caution with venturing to guess how God works outside our Church.