Dear brother Don,
I agree with you. These are differences in CANONICAL application of the Petrine primacy that should legitimately be put on the table and can and should be rescinded. I would add , among other things aside from the election of our bishops, the idea of papal oversight over our liturgies.
From my understanding, these canonical innovations are due to a siege mentality of the papacy because of the state of schism of the Churches. I personally do not find this inherently objectionable, because I believe it is the divine responsibility of any head bishop (on whatever level) to ensure the unity of the Church. Direct papal involvement in local elections, liturgies, etc. are the result of the unfortunate state of schism. I do not agree with the naysayers that direct papal involvement is the result of a power grab with the intention of taking power away from the episcopate. Rather, direct papal involvement is simply (and I’m sure many would add “unfortunately”) the manner in which the papacy believes unity will be best preserved - concern for unity, not concern for control, is the sine qua non of papal oversight.
It would be a tremendous step for ecumenism if those Canons in the current Eastern Code regarding direct papal oversight on certain matters were removed. Should this be done before or after communion is restored? That is the question. My pov is that it should be done in a future Ecumenical reunion Council with our Orthodox brethren.
Blessings,
Marduk