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shondrea
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Aw, come on guys, do we have to be fighting? Make love, not war!
Emerald, although I agree with Ras, i can see your points. We do need to be careful what we expose ourselves to. I know that I would not have some of the temptations I do if I had avoided certain books growing up. I wish I had been more spiritually aware as a teen, because now I have some problems due to the material I read.
I do think, though, that as Catholic adults we have an advantage. We know how to read or watch things, even imperfect things, and be able to take the good and leave the bad. We can eat a delicious rib dinner, and be able to leave all the grisle on the plate.
What one person can handle with no problem, may be another person’s sin, or temptation. For example, take for instance a comic series I enjoy. 2 supporting characters are in what appears to be a homosexual relationship (though as the story goes on, it shows that it’s not love, more of a power control, obsession and Stolkholm syndrome. it’s actually very sad) This story doesn’t tempt me to sin, because it isn’t sexual in the least, and doesn’t arouse me, only stirs saddness and pity for the poor, confused boy. But a guy who’s struggleing with SSA? Shouldn’t read it, most likely, as it might be an occasion of sin for him.
Emerald, although I agree with Ras, i can see your points. We do need to be careful what we expose ourselves to. I know that I would not have some of the temptations I do if I had avoided certain books growing up. I wish I had been more spiritually aware as a teen, because now I have some problems due to the material I read.
I do think, though, that as Catholic adults we have an advantage. We know how to read or watch things, even imperfect things, and be able to take the good and leave the bad. We can eat a delicious rib dinner, and be able to leave all the grisle on the plate.
What one person can handle with no problem, may be another person’s sin, or temptation. For example, take for instance a comic series I enjoy. 2 supporting characters are in what appears to be a homosexual relationship (though as the story goes on, it shows that it’s not love, more of a power control, obsession and Stolkholm syndrome. it’s actually very sad) This story doesn’t tempt me to sin, because it isn’t sexual in the least, and doesn’t arouse me, only stirs saddness and pity for the poor, confused boy. But a guy who’s struggleing with SSA? Shouldn’t read it, most likely, as it might be an occasion of sin for him.