Defining terms, as others have said, is a good way to start, if she will play that game.
If she’s a nurse, then she shoudl know that human life begins at conception. Ask her at what point in the development of teh human being that “rights” should begin. ie. reproductive rights, which is a stupid term, as when people speak of “reproductive rights” they’re talking about right to an abortion, but that’s killing a human being, once pregnant, reproduction has already taken place, thus the right to reproduce has been completed.
Teh other point is what right, if any, is superior. You can’t have the right to privacy if you’re dead, you can’t have “reproductive rights” if you’re a rock. You have to be alive first, so the “right to life” is paramount, the primary right which all others are derived. The z/e/f is alive, therefore, the question you have to ask her, is when rights begin, as I mention, and why, if not at conception which is when life starts, is she allocating some other random point to bestow rights? Should a ten year old without a menses have the right to reproduce? Shoudl IVF be given to an 80 year old, if '“reproductive rigths” are so important?
Anyho, she may something assassinine like human rights begin at birth, then ask her why? A lot of the reasons for abortion can easily be applied to the new born, ie. lack of sentience, thought, dependence.
If she’s a “pro-abortion till birth” ask her about viability, ask her why she thinks its okay for a woman to kill a full term foetus. If she’s one of these inconstient pro-aborts who just picks an abitary point in pregnancy to allot rights, or viability, as her what makes that point so special?
The thing is, you need to do a bit of reading into this yourself, honestly, pro-abortion arguments are such a load of cow poopies that anyone with half a brain and a stick up his nose could refute them.