Contraception and health issues

[CatholicSooner]

Then you don’t agree. The Church teaches what she teaches. It IS black and white and the Church most certainly has taken into account situations like yours and worse.

ABC is NEVER ok!!!

How is that still being discussed!!!

For the love of Pete what does God have to say to make it more clearer!

People, there are no situations no loopholes you can find. But people still try?

What if my wife owns a monkey from Africa who can sign the Douay Rheims Version of the Bible and only does so when we have sex when fertile!? But if she conceives the monkey switches to the Koran. How about then can we use ABC to help spread the gospel to all the deaf children who like the monkey at the Zoo?

Can we do it if it is upside down and in space?

What if my wife is actually a cyborg?
What if we use rubber instead of latex and we grow the rubber tree in our backyard? Is that natural enough?

What if president Obama has a gun to my head in my bedroom with my pants around my ankles? what then? Should I just die?

Yes!

Good grief!

How many times must this be addressed.

People in Africa are dying of aids. The Church hates that a single person has to die, but SHE WILL NOT PERMIT EVIL TO TRY TO ACHIEVE SOMETHING HOLY.

you don’t have to be an *** about it (excuse my language).

I’m giving real life reasons of why this question keeps coming up. Get off your high horse. I pray that you never have to be put in the position of having to choose between a happy marriage and faith.

 

[Hoosier_Daddy]

Then you don’t agree. The Church teaches what she teaches. It IS black and white and the Church most certainly has taken into account situations like yours and worse.

ABC is NEVER ok!!!

How is that still being discussed!!!

For the love of Pete what does God have to say to make it more clearer!

People, there are no situations no loopholes you can find. But people still try?

What if my wife owns a monkey from Africa who can sign the Douay Rheims Version of the Bible and only does so when we have sex when fertile!? But if she conceives the monkey switches to the Koran. How about then can we use ABC to help spread the gospel to all the deaf children who like the monkey at the Zoo?

Can we do it if it is upside down and in space?

What if my wife is actually a cyborg?
What if we use rubber instead of latex and we grow the rubber tree in our backyard? Is that natural enough?

What if president Obama has a gun to my head in my bedroom with my pants around my ankles? what then? Should I just die?

Yes!

Good grief!

How many times must this be addressed.

People in Africa are dying of aids. The Church hates that a single person has to die, but SHE WILL NOT PERMIT EVIL TO TRY TO ACHIEVE SOMETHING HOLY.

Learn NFP use it. Be thankful you live in a time where this type of technology and medicine is known.

I make it a point to never offer NFP advice. But here, I am going to break my rule.

If your wife has basic regular cycles you can have sex probably more than you do with ABC. You just wont.

 

[Hoosier_Daddy]

you don’t have to be an *** about it (excuse my language).

I’m giving real life reasons of why this question keeps coming up. Get off your high horse. I pray that you never have to be put in the position of having to choose between a happy marriage and faith.

I’m sorry, I know that came across harsh. But it happens all the time!

I choose a happy marriage and faith every day. NFP was the single biggest struggle in our marriage. And we also used to be on ABC. None of that changes morality. None.

NFP sucks. Medical conditions suck.
The attitude that the Church hinders not helps you is wrong.

Perhaps you are new to this site. Perhaps you are just venting your frustrations with NFP and this issue. I’ve, been there. But it is not the Church and God that needs to mold to the real world, it is the real world (you) that needs to mold to God.

 

[LookingForEve]

So If I find a wife we can have sex as long as if its not with condoms? The only thing is if she gets pregnant we have to have a c-section? What does the Church feel about that? Remember I have genital warts and she has to have those too or I wont marry.

 

[underacloud]

So If I find a wife we can have sex as long as if its not with condoms? The only thing is if she gets pregnant we have to have a c-section? What does the Church feel about that?

The Church would have no problem with that. c-sections are performed for a variety of reasons and the Church has never spoken negatively about them.

Remember I have genital warts and she has to have those too or I wont marry.

I’m not sure how this will work in practice.

Anyway, wouldn’t any woman you date and wish to proceed towards marriage be able to protect herself against your infection by getting an HPV vaccine?