Thank you everyone for your responses.
I must say that my own individual conscience, formed by the magisterium on pro-life issues, thinks that there is a major tension between respect for the dignity of life (of the mother) and the teaching on b.c. as applied in HV.
I disagree. There is no inconsistency at all. If there is a serious reason to avoid pregnancy, one may do so. The Church does not insist that the couple continue having children, disregard the mother’s health, or have sex with any specific frequency or at all.
One may avoid pregnancy by abstaining either periodically or completely. If abstaining periodically, one may use modern methods of NFP that accurately identify the post-ovulatory time of a woman’s cycle. Newer methods also incorporate fertility monitors. If a couple feels compelled to refrain even during the post-ovulatory phase of the cycle that is their choice.
Contraception is never a moral choice.
I would be particularly curious to find whether Benedict has written anything on this conundrum.
There is no conundrum.
Counseling a woman, as did the apologist, that she can “better protect” her children if she dies, is simply something I would never do.
That is NOT what the Apologist said at all. The apologist went on at length about abstaining periodically or permanently. The apologist stated that
IF they became pregnant anyway (which could also happen using contraception by the way) they should trust in God and recognize that we are not the master’s of our own lives. She pointed out that other things could happen that take the mother away prematurely (like getting hit by a bus!) so we must always be mindful that our time here is limited and not our own.
The apologist at NO TIME indicated that the woman get pregnant and purposely put herself in a position of being in danger.
I found an excellent book by a Benedictine monk, Philip S. Kaufman, called Why You Can Disagree and Remain a Faithful Catholic, that uses probabilism to address difficult issues like contraception when a couple receives medical advice that they should have no more children.
This book is not authentic Catholic teaching and should be discarded. It is false to assert such a position. There is nothing “probable” about the Church’s teaching on contraception. To attempt to apply probablism is to attempt to rationalize that which you desire to do. Church teaching is not ambiguous on this matter. It is clear and it is definitive.
He leans heavily on the the thought of Karl Rahner, the greatest Catholic theologian of the the 20th century (to my mind),
Karl Rahner was censured by the Vatican. His writings should not be used as the basis for forming one’s conscience. Since you have already started down this road it is clear that you are quite desparate to rationalize that which you desire to do in any way possible.
However, the sure norm for conscience formation is actual church teaching, not censured theologians. And, actual Church teaching is that contraception is intrinsically disordered and sin against the sixth commandment.
to find that there is a role for the individual conscience, formed by the magisterium, on decisions about b.c.
This is a false conclusion based on faulty reasoning and a disregard for Church teaching. Do not follow these men on the path to perdition. Our call from Christ is to walk the path of holiness.
Kauffman also cites a poll after Humanae Vitae was issued that indicates that 60% of American Catholic priests did not think all artificial contraception wrong. In an election, that would be a landslide.
That is completely irrelevant. The Truth is not decided based on opinions or polls.