The claim that an emphasis on abstinence will lead to more unprotected sex than education of contraception is pretty ridiculous. In today’s society, is anyone really claiming that teens (or even children) don’t know about condoms? Kids learn about condoms from every show on television before they’re 10. Can we really blame kids not using condoms on the fact that they’re parents (or schools) never mentioned it? Instead, if parents or schools stress abstinence, the teen will be more likely to abstain from sex, and if they still choose to have sex, will likely be just as aware about the existence and use of condoms as a child receiving education in contraception.
But it’s not only that abstinence does not increase the chance of unprotected sex, but contraception education increases the chance of all kinds of sex. That’s really a no-brainer. Imagine you tell school children about a spooky abandoned house, and say, “because some kids are hurt climbing over the fence, let me tell you about a secret back entrance. Oh, but you probably shouldn’t go there at all.” Are kids going to be more or less likely to visit the house?
That’s really the problem: that kid’s are having sex at all. Because the inevitable thing is not that kids will have sex, but that people who have sex will sometimes forget contraception. This is even true of adults who regularly purchase and use condoms. And somehow the idea is that kids, with some classes, are supposed to use condoms more effectively and consistently than adults with years of experience using condoms? Quite unlikely.