Dear Mr. Keating and contemplative:
I honestly do not know where to begin with this reply. A certain part of me (the egotistical part, perhaps) wishes to respond to the insinuations made. A certain part of me wants to bring this back to the purpose of my original post. Finally, a certain part of me wants to sigh and shake my head on why there is even a debate over this.
I thought I was fairly coherant before, but please let me reiterate to remove all doubt. I am not claiming to be perfect. I am not even claiming to be better, either morally or otherwise, than Mr. Keating. I just wanted to offer some constructive criticism. As I have said before, I believe Mr. Keating’s work has been of tremendous benefit to the Catholic community, but that does not and should not mean that he is perfect.
In all honesty, I am not looking for applause. I am not looking to change who you are, oppress you, take away your freedom of speech, or force you to please me. I just want Mr. Keating to be more effective. If my taking my advice would not make Mr. Keating’s work more effective, then please disregard it. If my previous posts gave any indication that my intent was anything other than honest and open constructive criticism, then I apologize - the fault is entirely mine.
There is more I would like to say regarding the manner in which I was responded to. However, for the sake of discretion, I will not post it here in this public forum. If Mr. Keating is interested in carrying on the discussion privately, he can send me a private message to that effect. I am aware that Mr. Keating has tremendous demands on his time, so I will not hold a grudge if he is not interested.
Finally, Mr. Keating, I still hold you up as a role model. Just because I feel that there is one point on which I could offer advice, does not mean that there are not many more points on which I could learn from you. If I disregarded everyone who was imperfect, who on Earth could I look up to anymore?