Orionthehunter:
I was taught to respect my elders and always respect those in authority in the Church. I still adhere to that “lesson” and don’t believe that it is proper to defy authority (except in extreme grave matters) with an in-the-face attitude.
That is a really good approach when one is in a religious order and has taken a vow of obedience. Even in those cases, we are not obliged to obey if, in our conscience, and I take in the case of Altar Man’s conscience, something is being violated is being violated. Only altar man can tell us if standing, in contradiction to the GIRM, violates his conscience.
A police officer is an authority and if I see the posted speed is 45, get stopped and “instructed” to do 35 in a 45 mph zone because the officer wants me to do so (wants = personal preference), I am not obligated to comply (assuming it is not a construction zone, there isn’t bad weather, accidents or other
visible reason). Similarly, if a parent (an authority figure) tells a child he should stand during his math class, in spite of the fact that everyone else is sitting, and the teacher tells him to sit down, and he has a chair, does no thave a blistered bottom, which competing authority figure is obligated to obey? We really don’t know what the parent’s intentions were so if I follow your line of thought the child would be wrongly following the teacher’s directive if he were to sit.
There are competing authority figures here. One is the Holy See and one is the woman in charge of the altar servers. The bishop, to my mind, is not in the picture. If the woman had said, that she had asked for permission for the altar servers to stand for a particular Mass where there was a good reason to make such a request, I would find it far more believable and would say, just do it.
I’ll repeat again that I believe he has just cause to suspect this bishop was not even contacted on the basis that “permission” has been given in a Church where there is no visible reason other than, 'I want you to".
The GIRM and so many matters in the Church are complex and sometimes confusing to anyone who isn’t an expert. That is why we are called to submit and obey those in authority. The “offending party” believes she is protecting a legitimate instruction.
Which is why when the GIRM states VERY clearly that the faithful are to kneel at a given point of the Mass, they should not be instructed to do otherwise unless an obvious justifiable reason exists (on occasion) for even posing the question to the bishop in the first place.
The easiest path for the woman is to not try to “spin” the GIRM. Altar Man has already indicated he spoke to her about the GIRM and she stated that it was nothing more than a guideline. This is simply not true. That is why the Vatican has issued these clarifications. The GIRM is easily read and understood by any reasonable adult.
Here’s GIRM #43. Lets see how difficult this is to interpret and I will ask Altar Man to copy and paste the following questions and provide responses (in another color). I have put numbers in to correspond with my questions. This does not require a PhD to decipher. Even my 13 y.o. nephew can understand it, as it should be.
In the dioceses of the United States of America, they should kneel beginning after the singing or recitation of the
Sanctus until after the
Amen of the Eucharistic Prayer, except when
prevented on occasion by (1) reasons of health, (2) lack of space, (3) the large number of people present, or (4) some other
good reason. Those who do not kneel ought to make a profound bow when the priest genuflects after the consecration.ALTAR MAN:
- Are any of the altar servers of ill health so as not to be able to kneel?
- Is there adequate space in the sanctuary for all altar servers to kneel?
- Are there too many people so as to prevent kneeling?
- Is there any potentially obvious “good reason”? What answer have you been given by her as to why she wants to force standing?
Let me repeat myself. I don’t condone intentional or unintentional violations of the GIRM or other Church Teaching. However, effecting change is difficult (if it was easy, it would be done). It is all in attitude and approach. Personally, I see that an approach that begins w/ “defiance” (as opposed to catechesis and “honey”) as the vehicle as part of the problem and absolutely bound to fail. I don’t think this is what Alter Man desires.
Defiance is already in play by the person telling the altar servers to do something that contradicts plain English.