If you are indeed in a colony then your reference correctly should be to the Queen of the UK. But if you are in a former, now independent, colony such as Australia, New Zealand, Canada, Jamaica etc. then the Queen is the ‘Queen of Australia’ etc. because each of these countries has accepted her as their own monarch. If the UK deposed her tomorrow, she would still be Queen of about 20 other places.
Oh no I feel my humour kicking up… please know that I mean this in good cheer while mostly bustling around doing house chores today and in a goofy mood. If you genuinely find correct titling etiquette for the royal family an important thing, please let me know and I’ll at least keep my goofiness about it off here.
But “correct references for the queen” are just not my headspace right now.
All I’m now thinking, from my irreverent little now independent former colony country, is:
Queen of the Corgis!
The Queen Across the Sea
Mrs. Queen
Captain Queen of the Cockneys and Canucks
You get the drift. I honestly do like the reality of a royal family, and swear I feel affectionate about them (and am not looking to dethrone her majesty as our head of state, as many of my countrymen desire and honestly I reckon will probably happen soon enough). I just also have I
really casual, default irreverent manner, I guess. If I met her I’d be tempted to offer my hand to shake, and not to insult her either, but because it’d feel weird to bow. (I know she wouldn’t accept it and I’d probably wise up beforehand and solicit counsel from people who could advise me of whatever the good reasons are for observing the ‘proper etiquette’ with the royals. Just sharing how my brain is towards them by default. They’re just a family that lives in a palace and that’s neat and we pay for them to basically be symbolic for us, in my mind. Like, in my head they’re just normal people with a slightly unique career role. I like them, from a distance. I’m cool with the whole palace thing. I’m chill with them taking turns being my head of state. I was a little less cool with Harry and Meghan trying to live here and get us to pay for it after abdicating the role we pay for, but they’re gone again so that’s fine. So, much love. I just can’t seem to get in the headspace of bothering to learn how to refer to the royals “correctly”.)
I bow to Jesus. He’s the only one, currently.
Not meaning any disrespect though to worldly authorities I perhaps
should be showing higher respect to. Open to correction on it.