pnewton:
What is a relativist? I am familiar with the term moral relativist, which I am not, but not the term relativist.
A moral relativist is a relativist about morals–in other words, about moral goodness. In this case, you appear to be a relativist about beauty–about aesthetic goodness. You seem to think that beauty has no existence outside the eye of the beholder. Aesthetic relativism makes more ostensible sense than moral relativism, and I can see why you would hold the one and not the other. But ultimately I think the two are linked. Beauty, truth, and goodness are related. Relativize one and you weaken all three.
Regarding all three (and perhaps especially regarding beauty), we need to be nuanced and acknowledge just how important perspective is. But to say that beauty is entirely relative springs from the same madness as the more obviously mistaken forms of relativism.
The traditional Christian (i.e., Catholic, but I shouldn’t be telling you what the Catholic view is!) view is that goodness is essentially unified, because all goodness is a reflection of God. Beauty, truth, moral excellence–they are all reflections of the one divine essence.
If by relativist I believe that tastes, which have no moral signifigance, have…er…no moral significance, then yes.
I think that’s heretical. To say that taste has no moral significance (I’m not claiming that all tastes have moral significance, at least not except insofar as all tastes are inextricably linked to every other aspect of a person) is to say that aesthetic beauty can be utterly separated from moral excellence. How can you say that without denying that both kinds of goodness are reflections of the indivisible goodness that is God?
Not all differences in taste have moral significance, in the sense that to choose one is better than another.
I do not think chocolate is superior to vanilla,
I agree. They are different kinds of goodness but they are both good.
or action films are superior to boring films.
There are no boring films. There are only bored people. The question to ask is why are you bored by a particular movie? Is it because it fails to stimulate your intellect and will in fruitful ways? Or is it because you have failed to develop some particular virtue that would be required for you to appreciate the movie?