Creating Lustful looks and being Catholic?

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POST-SYNODAL APOSTOLIC EXHORTATION
RECONCILIATION AND PENANCE
OF JOHN PAUL II
TO THE BISHOPS CLERGY AND FAITHFUL
ON RECONCILIATION AND PENANCE
IN THE MISSION OF THE CHURCH TODAY
Personal Sin and Social Sin
16.** Sin, in the proper sense, is always a personal act**, since it is an act of freedom on the part of an individual person and not properly of a group or community. This individual may be conditioned, incited and influenced by numerous and powerful external factors. He may also be subjected to tendencies, defects and habits linked with his personal condition. In not a few cases such external and internal factors may attenuate, to a greater or lesser degree, the person’s freedom and therefore his responsibility and guilt.** But it is a truth of faith**, also confirmed by our experience and reason, that the human person is free. This truth cannot be disregarded in order to place the blame for individuals’ sins on external factors such as structures, systems or other people. Above all, this would be to deny the person’s dignity and freedom, which are manifested-even though in a negative and disastrous way-also in this responsibility for sin committed. Hence there is nothing so personal and untransferable in each individual as merit for virtue or responsibility for sin.
 
…above quote
Certainly. *

But one truth does not negate other truths. Truth all goes together.

A person who dresses immodestly can be* responsible personally* for the sin of scandal…(ie for being a cause of lust).

The person who lusts due to her immodest dress is responsible for their sin of lust.

and we can note too

The person who *fraternally corrects *(in the manner noted above by Pope Benedict XVI) does an act of charity.
 
Also in addition to scandal …to leading another into sin (as Jesus tells us…temptations will come but woe to him by which they come…)

There are other ways one can be responsible for sins committed by others:

Catechism (issued by Pope John Paul II)

1868 Sin is a personal act. Moreover, we have a responsibility for the sins committed by others when we cooperate in them:
  • by participating directly and voluntarily in them;
  • by ordering, advising, praising, or approving them;
  • by not disclosing or not hindering them when we have an obligation to do so;
  • by protecting evil-doers.
scborromeo.org/ccc/p3s1c1a8.htm#1868
 
(I hope this post is not out of line - if it is I will remove it or edit it.)

The Power of Low Self-Esteem:**
From what I’m gathering for 99.999999% of these people I think it’s a choice based on denial powered by low-self-esteem. **
Exactly what I said in my first post, if in different words: that it comes from a disordered way of valuing oneself based on what you believe others see than as a human being qua child of God with innate rights and value (thus my quote of the American Constitution).
 
Certainly. *

But one truth does not negate other truths. Truth all goes together.

A person who dresses immodestly can be* responsible personally* for the sin of scandal…(ie for being a cause of lust).

The person who lusts due to her immodest dress is responsible for their sin of lust.

and we can note too

The person who *fraternally corrects *(in the manner noted above by Pope Benedict XVI) does an act of charity.

“Scandal” – is subjective to the customs of time and place. A woman showing an ankle in times past – could be “accused” of causing “scandal” at that time – and that is no longer the case. And again – we are not to transfer the responsibility for our own sin (lust) – to another-- making the other the cause of our sin.
 

A virtuous man – would not judge a person by the clothes – but would see another human being with a Christian attitude – as a child of God.
No, he could very well judge the person to be immodest, and be within his duties - not his rights, but his duties. If he did not judge what he saw, he would be disobeying a commandment of the Lord. One does not need to be immaculate to point out sin and condemn it, and one need not condemn the person entire who sins, for the sin.
 
Our bodies are our tools for displaying what is within. Think about this example for a second. Lets say one of my friends who is a woman liked to dress very scantily. She was not trying to draw attention to herself or cause lustful thoughts on purpose though. She has no intention to sin. However because of how she was dressed this caused me to have lustful thoughts and I noticed this was a common thing among the men she came into contact with.

While of course I should strive for heroic virtue and a direly wish to have the eyes of God in seeing her as he does no matter what she is wearing, this just is not the case for me and not the case for most of the other men she is coming into contact with. Would it be wrong to mention something to her in the interest of asking her to dress more modestly to help myself and others look upon her as God wishes her to be seen in her full dignity? Or should I stop being friends with her and refuse to see her until I perfect my ability to see chastely to the point I can be around her without being led to lust?
You would sin by not judging/correcting, and remaining silent.
 

By asking her to --“help you in your weakness/change her mode of dress” – you are indeed – transferring/shifting responsibility for your thoughts – onto her. And – if you are lusting after her – are you really her friend.
Are you God or Christ or the Virgin? Immaculate and immune from sin? I didn’t think so. Your sanctimoniousness and willingness to judge so quickly and incorrectly while condemning its proper use in others - such as your statement about the hypothetical friend - is off-putting. Extremely so. Thou art not holier than all fallen men, but thou art holier than thou.
 

“Scandal” – is subjective to the customs of time and place. A woman showing an ankle in times past – could be “accused” of causing “scandal” at that time – and that is no longer the case. And again – we are not to transfer the responsibility for our own sin (lust) – to another-- making the other the cause of our sin.
Scandal is when one leads another into sin. That is the sense used here by the Church and Moral theology.

We cannot transfer one meaning of a word for another. 🙂

It is not transferring the responsibility for ones sin to another to note that another person can be personally responsible for their own sin of causing another to lust.

Indeed there even other ways one can be responsible for sins committed by others:

Catechism (issued by Pope John Paul II who wrote the doc your quoting)

1868 Sin is a personal act. Moreover, we have a responsibility for the sins committed by others when we cooperate in them:
  • by participating directly and voluntarily in them;
  • by ordering, advising, praising, or approving them;
  • by not disclosing or not hindering them when we have an obligation to do so;
  • by protecting evil-doers.
and as the Catechism also notes:

“Scandal is an attitude or behavior which leads another to do evil. The person who gives scandal becomes his neighbor’s tempter. He damages virtue and integrity; he may even draw his brother into spiritual death”.

Now of course there are various degrees of “immodesty” and varying degrees of responsibility on the part of the immodest for the sins of others (who are of course personally responsible -there is not “transfer” of responsbility here).

(For a mortal sin of course one needs the three aspects of such)
 
Also in addition to scandal …to leading another into sin (as Jesus tells us…temptations will come but woe to him by which they come…)

There are other ways one can be responsible for sins committed by others:

Catechism (issued by Pope John Paul II)

1868 Sin is a personal act. Moreover, we have a responsibility for the sins committed by others when we cooperate in them:
  • by participating directly and voluntarily in them;
  • by ordering, advising, praising, or approving them;
  • by not disclosing or not hindering them when we have an obligation to do so;
  • by protecting evil-doers.
scborromeo.org/ccc/p3s1c1a8.htm#1868

This would apply to being directly involved in theft – murder — same sex marriage— prostitution/strip clubs/porn.

Something for you to think about. By shifting/transferring the responsibility for lust onto a woman—in essense – it forms “protection” for the evil of lust in the one lusting.
 

This would apply to being directly involved in theft – murder — same sex marriage— prostitution/strip clubs/porn.
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Such would apply as the CCC notes it applies…(the CCC is there speaking certain ways one can be responsible–they are general things)
 

Something for you to think about. By shifting/transferring the responsibility for lust onto a woman—
As for the “shifting/transferring the responsibility for lust onto the woman” – there is no such shifting/transferring. None. None. None.

She is personally responsible for any sin on her part of immodesty or scandal.

And those who lust are responsible for their sin.

We cannot shift/transfer the responsibility for her sin to the men.
 
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Walking_Home:
By asking her to --“help you in your weakness/change her mode of dress” – you are indeed – transferring/shifting responsibility for your thoughts – onto her. And – if you are lusting after her – are you really her friend.
Are you God or Christ or the Virgin? Immaculate and immune from sin? I didn’t think so. Your sanctimoniousness and willingness to judge so quickly and incorrectly while condemning its proper use in others - such as your statement about the hypothetical friend - is off-putting. Extremely so. Thou art not holier than all fallen men, but thou art holier than thou.

I have never claimed to be God/Christ/our Blessed Mother. I am a sinner—willing to take responsibility for my own sins – and not transfer it to another.
 

Something for you to think about. By shifting/transferring the responsibility for lust onto a woman—
As for the “shifting/transferring the responsibility for lust onto the woman” – there is no such shifting/transferring. None. None. None.

She is personally responsible for any sin on her part of immodesty or scandal.

And those who lust are responsible for their sin.

We cannot shift/transfer the responsibility for her sin to the men.
 
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Walking_Home:
Something for you to think about. By shifting/transferring the responsibility for lust onto a woman—
As for the “shifting/transferring the responsibility for lust onto the woman” – there is no such shifting/transferring. None. None. None.

She is personally responsible for any sin on her part of immodesty or scandal.

And those who lust are responsible for their sin.

We cannot shift/transfer the responsibility for her sin to the men.

Baloney – Its been happening for generations. It has happened here on this site – in the “modesty” threads. It’s happened when a woman is sexually harrassed – and someone puts blame on her – for what she wears. So please – don’t go around with the — “there is no such shifting/transferring”/None. None. None. It serves no purpose – but to protect the evil doers that make women scapegoats.

As I said prior —“Scandal” – is subjective to time and place.
 

Baloney – Its been happening for generations. It has happened here on this site – in the “modesty” threads. It’s happened when a woman is sexually harrassed – and someone puts blame on her – for what she wears. So please – don’t go around with the — “there is no such shifting/transferring”/None. None. None. It serves no purpose – but to protect the evil doers that make women scapegoats.

As I said prior —“Scandal” – is subjective to time and place.
*Modesty *is subject in part to time and place.

Leading another into sin -scandal- is a sin.

As to the rest…such is not the subject of this thread or the material of my posts. What I noted in the above posts is true and are the various aspects that are involved.

Could it happen that someone is unjustly “accused” of some sin etc etc?..sure. Is that a sin --yes it certainly can be.

But such is not the topic of the posts. Nor does it change that scandal and immodesty are sins.
 
One can “not intend” (in the sense of actively seek) to create lust…and still yet sin to one degree or another by knowingly dressing in a way that is immodest (in the sense of the word taken in the usual sense).

A woman also needs to inform herself as to the nature of men and women and effect of such dress on men. And then act out of virtue…out of modesty and charity etc (without exaggeration) without then negating beauty. Living as a joyful Christian.

For many woman are unconscious as to such (read "Love and Responsibility).

No matter how you spin it – Bookcat. You are making the woman responsible/shifting the blame – for a mans thoughts.
 

No matter how you spin it – Bookcat. You are making the woman responsible/shifting the blame – for a mans thoughts.
No “spin” 🙂

Pope John Paul II’s reminds us of the above “bolded text” (prior to being Pope but I imagine he said a number of things as Pope later). Jesus teaches that we can responsible for the sins of others. The Catechism notes we can sin by scandal and thus be responsible for others sins (and in other ways too).

Sure.

But such is NOT “shifting the blame” for a mans sinful thoughts.

(indeed they all speak as well to the sin of the man).

And for him to commit the mortal sin of lustful thoughts he needs to do so with full knowledge and complete consent (something only he can personally do).

But such does negate the fact that a woman (may) sin via her choice of clothing. That a person can sin in leading another into sin.

She is personally responsible for any sin on her part of immodesty or scandal.

And those who lust are responsible for their sin (even though others can have a kind of “responsibility” as well…such does not “transfer” the men’s responsibility away from the men -certainly not!)

We are not to shift/transfer the responsibility for her sin to the men.
 
PS: again there can be various degrees of potential sin…

But certainly if a person dresses in order to cause men to lust …well that is in the grave area.
 
No “spin” 🙂

Pope John Paul II’s reminds us of the above “bolded text” (prior to being Pope but I imagine he said a number of things as Pope later). Jesus teaches that we can responsible for the sins of others. The Catechism notes we can sin by scandal and thus be responsible for others sins (and in other ways too).

Sure.

But such is NOT “shifting the blame” for a mans sinful thoughts.

(indeed they all speak as well to the sin of the man).

And for him to commit the mortal sin of lustful thoughts he needs to do so with full knowledge and complete consent (something only he can personally do).

But such does negate the fact that a woman (may) sin via her choice of clothing. That a person can sin in leading another into sin.

She is personally responsible for any sin on her part of immodesty or scandal.

And those who lust are responsible for their sin (**even though others can have a kind of “responsibility” as well…such does not **“transfer” the men’s responsibility away from the men -certainly not!)

We are not to shift/transfer the responsibility for her sin to the men.

“Modesty” and “Scandal” are subjective to time and place. What was “immodest” --“Scandalous” – 100, 200 years ago – is no longer the case. What is “immodest/scandalous” in one culture – does not hold true for another. Your play on words – does not change – that you still place responsibility on the woman.
 
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