I don’t think it’s any more sinful than criticizing your mother-in-law. Criticism leads to judging others and their motives. It also leads to pride, “I know better than you do”. It leads to conflicts that often end up in sins against charity.
When it comes to criticizing clerics (deacons, priests and bishops) or religious, after working with them since 1973, I have found that the laity always loses, unless you have something that will bring down the Church, like the sexual abuse scandal, because then the media gets involved.
If we’re talking about how a priest celebrates mass or what he says in his sermons or what a deacon says in his sermon or a religious dresses, says or doesn’t say, the Church’s authorities are going to have to protect the clerics and religious.
Right now there is a serious problem with the clericalization of lay people. By the clericalization of lay people we mean that laity wants to play the role of authority over clerics and religious. The laity wants the freedom to say what they want clerics to do or not do, religious to do or not do, and to educate them on what the Church says or doesn’t say.
No one is saying that every cleric or religious is perfect. That would be naive. What we are saying is that each person has a role to play. These people have superiors. If something is so serious that needs to be addressed, then use the proper channels. Do not go over the heads of their superiors and try to do it yourself.
When lay people go over the heads of the proper superiors, they end up getting burned.
In one diocese that I worked for, the Bishop dismantled all parish councils. They are not allowed. The Bishop got so upset with the laity telling priests what was best for the parish, that he terminated parish councils.
In my current diocese, the bishop does not allow the laity to speak to him. You must go through his secretary or the Vicar General. The Bishop will contact you if he needs to do so. He became tired of lay people telling him how to run his diocese. It was sad, because it was not a large number of lay people and he’s a wonderful bishop and we have a wonderful diocese. There are always those who feel that they know better.
Sometimes they do know a great deal. But as the old saying goes, “The buck stops here.” That’s usually the bishop or the major superior.
JR