Where does the Church say that?
The Missal and the GIRM talk about the communicants coming up to receive Holy Communion; they say nothing about coming up to receive blessings, or to ask about the homily, or light a candle, etc. The Church’s instructions for what happens at this time has to do with people coming forward
to receive Communion and what the ministers of Holy Communion do about it.
Why suggest that? That’s only your opinion.
Making a spiritual communion when you are not able to receive Holy Communion is not a recommendation of the Church? That surprises me. Here’s what I’ve found in my set of magisterial documents:
“Clearly, full participation in the Eucharist takes place when the faithful approach the altar in person to receive communion. Yet true as this is, care must be taken lest they conclude that the mere fact of their being present in church during the liturgy gives them a right or even an obligation to approach the table of the Eucharist. Even in cases where it is not possible to receive sacramental communion, participation at Mass remains necessary, important, meaningful and fruitful.
In such circumstances it is beneficial to cultivate a desire for full union with Christ through the practice of spiritual communion, praised by Pope John Paul II and recommended by saints who were masters of the spiritual life.” (2007 -
Sacramentum Caritatis, n. 55)
“The Eucharist thus appears as the culmination of all the sacraments in perfecting our communion with God the Father by identification with his only-begotten Son through the working of the Holy Spirit. With discerning faith a distinguished writer of the Byzantine tradition voiced this truth: in the Eucharist ‘unlike any other sacrament, the mystery [of communion] is so perfect that it brings us to the heights of every good thing: here is the ultimate goal of every human desire, because here we attain God and God joins himself to us in the most perfect union’. Precisely for this reason it is good to cultivate in our hearts a constant desire for the sacrament of the Eucharist.
This was the origin of the practice of ‘spiritual communion’, which has happily been established in the Church for centuries and recommended by saints who were masters of the spiritual life. Saint Teresa of Jesus wrote: ‘When you do not receive communion and you do not attend Mass, you can make a spiritual communion, which is a most beneficial practice; by it the love of God will be greatly impressed on you’.” (2003 -
Ecclesia de Eucharistia, n. 34)
“Public and private devotion to the Holy Eucharist outside Mass also is highly recommended: for the presence of Christ, who is adored by the faithful in the Sacrament, derives from the sacrifice and is
directed towards sacramental and spiritual Communion.” (1980 -
Inaestimabile Donum, n. 20)
“When the faithful
adore Christ present in the sacrament, they should remember that this presence derives from the sacrifice and has as its purpose both sacramental and
spiritual communion.” (1973 -
Eucharistiae Sacramentum, n. 80; this was simply repeating the earlier
“When the faithful
adore Christ present in the sacrament, they should remember that this presence derives from the sacrifice and has as its purpose both sacramental and
spiritual communion.” (1967 -
Eucharisticum Mysterium, n. 50)