Cuddle Party

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I thought a cuddle party entailed climbing into bed with your spouse, children and various pets and having a good snuggle. That’s the only cuddle party I’d want to attend anyhow! 🙂
 
Is this some sort of substitution for having a family? Is it possible that those peeps out there that tout free sex and abortions are finding something lacking in their lives?
 
tapiocapudding said:
I thought a cuddle party entailed climbing into bed with your spouse, children and various pets and having a good snuggle. That’s the only cuddle party I’d want to attend anyhow! 🙂
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:clapping: anything else is creepy.
 
I’m sure perverts are gonna love this! :mad:

Weird. Weird. Weird. There is no way I’m gonna cuddle with a man who isn’t my husband! :eek:
 
tapiocapudding said:
I thought a cuddle party entailed climbing into bed with your spouse, children and various pets and having a good snuggle. That’s the only cuddle party I’d want to attend anyhow! 🙂
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Agreed! Though my DH and I don’t have kids yet, this sounds like our kind of cuddle party! 😃
 
kevinsgirl said:
I’m sure perverts are gonna love this! :mad:

Weird. Weird. Weird. There is no way I’m gonna cuddle with a man who isn’t my husband! :eek:
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I think perverts invented this. They are trying to condition people and desenitize them to accept group sex, anonymous sex, and other perversions.

This is a seriously disordered “activity”.
 
Okay - this is weird…it’s almost like group sex with clothes on. Do these people realize that God created man and woman to be attracted to each other and there is NO WAY it could possible stop with just cuddling in a situation like that…it’s got to leave a boat load of unhealthy, definitely ungodly sexual tension…

That is just plain gross…healthy??? There is NOTHING HEALTHY about that…

This is weird and tapioca - my idea of cuddling staying in bed with dh and my kitties on a rainy Saturday morning…

Eeeew.

Holly
 
tapiocapudding said:
I thought a cuddle party entailed climbing into bed with your spouse, children and various pets and having a good snuggle. That’s the only cuddle party I’d want to attend anyhow! 🙂
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:yup: :clapping:

I’ve never heard of these things until this thread (thankfully!). Very weird and creepy…
 
BlestOne said:
Is this some sort of substitution for having a family? Is it possible that those peeps out there that tout free sex and abortions are finding something lacking in their lives?
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That’s what I’m sensing here. Gee, it just couldn’t be possible that we might need something in our lives besides empty pleasure and meaningless sex! 😛

I hope these people realize a “cuddle party” is not a good way to satisfy the need for meaningful human contact.
 
BlestOne said:
Is this some sort of substitution for having a family? Is it possible that those peeps out there that tout free sex and abortions are finding something lacking in their lives?
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touche Blest!

Well said:thumbsup:
 
This whole cuddling party is just a front and a lead into introducing people to group orgies. These cuddling parties will no doubt attract perverted people in our society. can you imagine cudddling with someone you don’t know and then finding out he was a child molestor?
… a Cuddling party…I Think of fruit cakes.
 
the thought grosses me out …
only folks I want to cuddle with are my DH, and my kids.

can’t help but think that there are a bunch of weirdos going to these things …
 
Larowyn said:
Has anyone heard of Cuddle Party? Apparently it’s where people just cuddle with other people for a while and do boundary exercises. The red Near Occasion of Sin lights kind of flashed when I read it, but the FAQ insists that sexual contact is not permitted.

Does anyone have an opinion on it? I’d never go for it since I suspect that there’s some questionable morality afoot and I don’t like being touched anyway.
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I have this weird hang up with physical affection. I seriously hate to be hugged. When I talk to people I stand back a few feet, so I would probably have a panic attack at one of these parties. Maybe after a few glasses of wine…
 
Yea… this is just beyond creepy…

It’s basically setting boundaries between cuddling and sex between strangers of opposite and same genders. Let’s just say this is basically a sinful way of saying, “Let’s have clothed sex only by cuddling and holding hands and wishing peace to the world!”

Ugh… please!🤷
 
I read through the website and it said the whole point was to learn how to be affectionate WITHOUT attaching it to sexuality.

Last night, I went to an interdenominational Christian event (and yes, Catholics are allowed and definitely encouraged to be Catholic) and they talked about the verse “Greet one another with a holy kiss.” It talked about how we don’t value relationships in our society, how we’re so individualistic, etc.

I think there’s more problems with our society than free sex and abortions. Our youth are encouraged to work hard and gain the world but they lose their souls in the process. They are not encouraged to love, to build strong relationships, or to be vulnerable because those are the same people you have to compete with in order to gain. Or because people leave. Or they betray you.

I’m a college student and I’ve found that to be pretty accurate.

And you know something? I have a lot of male friends who are very affectionate and they do NOT get turned on just by hugging or cuddling a girl (even if they haven’t known her, if she looks like she needs a hug, they will give her one, out of love and yes, they are devout Christians). One of my guy friends has held me close (like, me almost in his lap) when I was feeling vulnerable but it was definitely a brotherly hug, not a romantic one.

While I’m not crazy about a cuddle party, I don’t think the idea of being affectionate with strangers is a weird one and I think it’s a place where people my age feel they can be vulnerable for a little while without having it be about sex.
 
sanctamaria17 said:
I read through the website and it said the whole point was to learn how to be affectionate WITHOUT attaching it to sexuality.

Last night, I went to an interdenominational Christian event (and yes, Catholics are allowed and definitely encouraged to be Catholic) and they talked about the verse “Greet one another with a holy kiss.” It talked about how we don’t value relationships in our society, how we’re so individualistic, etc.

I think there’s more problems with our society than free sex and abortions. Our youth are encouraged to work hard and gain the world but they lose their souls in the process. They are not encouraged to love, to build strong relationships, or to be vulnerable because those are the same people you have to compete with in order to gain. Or because people leave. Or they betray you.

I’m a college student and I’ve found that to be pretty accurate.

And you know something? I have a lot of male friends who are very affectionate and they do NOT get turned on just by hugging or cuddling a girl (even if they haven’t known her, if she looks like she needs a hug, they will give her one, out of love and yes, they are devout Christians). One of my guy friends has held me close (like, me almost in his lap) when I was feeling vulnerable but it was definitely a brotherly hug, not a romantic one.

While I’m not crazy about a cuddle party, I don’t think the idea of being affectionate with strangers is a weird one and I think it’s a place where people my age feel they can be vulnerable for a little while without having it be about sex.
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This is a great, well thought-out response, sancta!

I think that especially on college campuses we run into this problem of people not understanding healthy affection. There is a rampant hook-up culture, and I’m sorry, I just can’t buy that we should only blame young adults’ sex drives for that.

There is something more that men and women are looking for–affection, intimacy, love–that they are not seeking in the right places or in the right ways. Our culture has been hyper-sexualized, and people today looking for affection end up hooking up to feel wanted, cared for, and loved. It’s really sad. 😦

I have male and female friends who I’ll hug. It’s really based on the person, their comfort level, and my relationship with them.

As for the cuddle party–I probably wouldn’t go, but then again, I don’t think it’s the equivalent of sex with clothes on.
 
SarahR said:
Cuddling with strangers?? At best these folks are losers.
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I saw a special on TV about this. The people were TOTAL LOSERS! People in their 30s & 40s with no emotional ties to any human being so that their need for physical contact needs to be filled by total strangers.

It was bizare, and gross.

If you are alone in this world, and need to cuddle, get a cat!
 
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