Cuddling for warmth

[therese1998]

Thank you

 

[MarthaSo]

I think back on some young men of my youth and sadly remember that my shy self would give them an inch and some guys would try the mile and meanly so. It was my fault for not speaking up but i just lacked that toughness or boldness that some of my friends had. Today is a completely different story I’m that confident grown woman and, thankfully, there are young women today that are confident enough to put the brakes on. OP, always trust your instincts, if a part of you wasn’t sure you should then stand up for yourself in a polite way (if the situation warrants politeness, some young men as in my past have warranted abrupt responses) by saying something like “Oh no thank you I can brave the cold a few more minutes!” because by doing that you’re gaining experience in how to handle those situations with a guilt free conscience.

 

[pacomius]

This thread, frankly is completely inappropriate and scandalous. I hope the moderators remove it immediately

While I do not know your reason for holding this view, I respect your opinion, even though I disagree with you.
If at all you do not like the OP, I would think you could have learnt one thing or another from the thread.
Furthermore, if someone has some uncertainties or doubts, I think it is a spiritual work of mercy to at least give a listening ear.
While I can go on and on, as to why I disagree with your opinion, it would be futile since I am not even certain of your primary motive.
In any case, thank you for speaking up your mind straight and direct.
God bless you.

 

[boclucky14]

You cuddled with some guy you knew had a crush on you. And then you say it’s nothing.

This is why women confuse men. If you didn’t like him, you shouldn’t press your body against his. Unless you were literally stuck in the middle of no where with no chance of surviving without warming each other, which this wasn’t, then you’re just teasing this guy, and playing with his feelings.