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Dwc:
I think that your sister needs to describe her situation to her parish priest. At St. Mary’s we have a Discretionary fund for members of the Parish and people in the immediate community who are in urgent need. I would have a hard time believing that Catholic parishes don’t have something similar.
St Mary’s is and has been an “Industry” parish, so people are always sharing roles, projects etc. and trying to help each other out. Your sister’s local parish should have something like that to help her with a hand up.
I also hope, that once she’s allerted the members of her parish to her need, that some of the people might try to help with CHILD CARE.
dwc:
Remember, St. Stephen the first Martyr was a Deacon who was appointed and ordained to help people like your sister.
I remember when my father had to apply for Food Stamps amd Medi-Cal, and the HUMILIATION on his face and in his shuffle. and, Then I had to use them in the store…
Even a couple of bags of groceries every two weeks from the parish pantry is better than that.
May God comfort your sister in her need. Michael
I think that your sister needs to describe her situation to her parish priest. At St. Mary’s we have a Discretionary fund for members of the Parish and people in the immediate community who are in urgent need. I would have a hard time believing that Catholic parishes don’t have something similar.
St Mary’s is and has been an “Industry” parish, so people are always sharing roles, projects etc. and trying to help each other out. Your sister’s local parish should have something like that to help her with a hand up.
I also hope, that once she’s allerted the members of her parish to her need, that some of the people might try to help with CHILD CARE.
DWC, the affirmative obligation isn’t to get the government to do it, but to do it ourselves. Have your sister talk to her local parish priest and to Catholic Social Services and give them a chance to live up to their affirmative obligation.Again, my point is this isn’t an either/or, or it shouldn’t be. Part of my frustration is that in our political system it has turned into pretty close to that and I’m asking for ideas how to reconcile it. I’m not for abortion, my first post explained my position about that. So while you’re very eloquent on why you consider abortion such an overwhelming issue, you’re preaching to the choir. My question is how to address BOTH pro-life and our responsibility to the poor.
David Paul, no, I don’t see what you outlined as helping the poor or disabled. Maybe you could be a little more detailed? For example, my sister. She graduated high school, married and had two little ones. Her husband had a psychotic break and put both her and the children in danger and refused treatment. They had both worked full time minimum wage jobs, and when they separated she was plunged far below poverty level with two little kids to support and a now mentally ill husband who was no longer working and therefor unable to pay support. My family is low middle class, I was in school, we helped as able, but couldn’t support them. What would your solution for her be? How do those programs keep her and her children with shelter and food and medical care until she gets on her feet?
Whether the Great Society failed or not, here we are and here are the poor and the mentally and physically disabled and the sick and whatever, and we have an affirmative obligation, per Jesus’ own words in the gospels and per numerous church teachings, to try to help these people. There’s no way around that.
And, the situation we are in is one in which the government taxes us and then decides what to do with the money, whether to use it to assist those in need, or not. So, is your answer “government can’t solve the problem” and that’s it? Is that the extent of your efforts and thoughts on the matter? Because that’s what I’m hearing here, folks, and no alternative ideas. Is that what you plan on saying to Jesus some day when He reminds you that what you
did for the least of your brothers, you did for Him?
Remember, St. Stephen the first Martyr was a Deacon who was appointed and ordained to help people like your sister.
I remember when my father had to apply for Food Stamps amd Medi-Cal, and the HUMILIATION on his face and in his shuffle. and, Then I had to use them in the store…
Even a couple of bags of groceries every two weeks from the parish pantry is better than that.
May God comfort your sister in her need. Michael