My parents are Baptists, and are pretty anti-Catholicism, so that’s why I have to wait.
I see. Thanks for the clarification.
So if I understand your question, you mean culture in the sense of an “identity” …aspects of a person or his behavior that one would immediately identify him as being Catholic?
Of course there are obvious ones…like when you see someone make the sign of the cross or praying a rosary, you know he’s Catholic.
But you may not be able to pick a Catholic out of a crowd of strangers…and here’s why:
One of the beautiful things about Catholicism, is that at a Mass, you can see people of all colors, all racial backgrounds, all ages, rich and poor, and all cultural backgrounds. At my parish, in addition to us ‘regular Americans’ (black, white, Hispanic, Asian) you would see people from India, VietNam, Africa…some in the native dress of their home countries…you would see a handyman kneeling beside a wealthy CEO…you would see the Eucharist offered to each of them the same way.
It is a beautiful thing to see them come forward to receive it, and return to their kneeler. That is the picture of one body. And yes, if you become part of that rite, there will be a deep connection to them within you…and that’s what “culture” is.