An important tool in the spiritual life is the Particular Examination of Conscience. Once you (and your confessor/director, if you have one) have identified the sin you wish to uproot or the virtue you wish to acquire at this point in your life, every day, you focus on that sin or virtue. At the middle of the day, classically in conjunction with the Angelus at noon, you take a look at how things are going with this particular struggle, thank God for success, make an act of contrition for failure, and set your course for the rest of the day. At the end of the day, after praying for light, you look again at this struggle, as well as reviewing everything else that happened during the day. Personally, I don’t find it necessary to use a list for just one day’s exam - whatever I’ve done wrong I haven’t had time to forget after just one day, but if you prefer to, that’s great. (There’s a thread about a good list on this forum somewhere - just search under “examination of conscience,” and you’re sure to find plenty of good stuff.) After the act of contrition, the most important thing in your nightly examination of conscience is the resolution for tomorrow. If you have a reasonable expectation of privacy in your house, you can keep all this in a notebook, which you can refer to as you prepare for Confession.
This is what I received many years ago from a fine spiritual director. Hope it helps you as it has me.
Betsy