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deb1
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I think that it depends on if the kissing is tempting you to sin.
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deb1
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I thought of saying this but I couldn’t think of a polite manner to do so.No. I actually know of some women who have a couple of things above the waist that need to be avoided.
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Newbie2
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Absolutely not. Toe biting is one small step away from the marital act!
What, so toe biting’s not allowed?
No. I actually know of some women who have a couple of things above the waist that need to be avoided.
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Hastrman
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Well, as Vince Vega said about foot massages, “It’s in the ballpark.”Absolutely not. Toe biting is one small step away from the marital act!
100 points to whomever gets the reference.
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Ghoti
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OK, but what happens when his wife catches him?
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holdencaulfield
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Ah, nothing came out of this thread…
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rpp
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But how can you take a step if someone has their teeth firmly locked on your toe?Absolutely not. Toe biting is one small step away from the marital act!
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rpp
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Sure it did, here is a conflated summary.
We know that we should not use people as a means to an end.
If you really want to show physical affection, a person should not do anything that would sexually arouse the other. The corollary to this is if you feel yourself becoming sexually aroused, it is time to stop.
And finally, we have determined that a person cannot walk if someone is biting their toe.
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holdencaulfield
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True, thanks.Sure it did, here is a conflated summary.
We know that we should not use people as a means to an end.
If you really want to show physical affection, a person should not do anything that would sexually arouse the other. The corollary to this is if you feel yourself becoming sexually aroused, it is time to stop.
And finally, we have determined that a person cannot walk if someone is biting their toe.
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deb1
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If you want hard and fast rules then no, nothing is coming of this thread. This is because what arouses one person might have no affect on another person, so it is difficult to say what the rules are. For one person, simply holding hands might be too much contact while another person might be comfortable with kissing.
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holdencaulfield
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So then are we saying that as long as you are not “aroused” it’s fine. However I think that “aroused” is a relative term.
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Jofantioch
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When I look at my boyfriend I begin to be aroused. When I smell his breath near me, I get aroused. Are you suggesting that he not breathe near me or that I should put him in a burka?
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Jofantioch
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Why do people always blame the French?I think it is sinful because it’s French. jk jk
We give you the great kissing, lingerie, and bustiers and you guys get all Calvanist on us.
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rpp
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I thought it was the Italians who did that? But then, Italians used to rule the world too.
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Ghoti
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Jofantioch
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Sweetie, I’m sorry you didn’t get the answer you wanted. I think there is far too much emphasis on physical sins in our culture. Answer me this. . .
What would you do if she got pregnant?
Do you want to marry her?
Why are you attracted to her? Is it all physical?
How do you love her? Count the ways!
Don’t objectify her. Love her and get to know her. Pray with her. Hold her. Talk to her. Discern what you feel and where this is going according to God. Chill out about the whole sin thing and concentrate on the Love thing. Love is the point of the Christian life after all.
Good luck!
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holdencaulfield
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lol lolthat I should put him in a burka?
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holdencaulfield
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That was a joke lol.
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holdencaulfield
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Yes, good point, however sin is so ingrained into my life I would like to make sure that I don’t sin.Sweetie, I’m sorry you didn’t get the answer you wanted. I think there is far too much emphasis on physical sins in our culture. Answer me this. . .
What would you do if she got pregnant?
Do you want to marry her?
Why are you attracted to her? Is it all physical?
How do you love her? Count the ways!
Don’t objectify her. Love her and get to know her. Pray with her. Hold her. Talk to her. Discern what you feel and where this is going according to God. Chill out about the whole sin thing and concentrate on the Love thing. Love is the point of the Christian life after all.
Good luck!
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graceandglory
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I think your concern should be to stay within the boundaries of chastity, not abstinence. It is way to possible to commit sexual sins against chastity and still be abstinent.
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