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Lapey
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This is the norm you will see in most parishes. Agree or not, the local Ordinary can make a change to this norm and often does. It also can be made, as in our diocese, an either or for the local pastor to decide. There is nothing wrong either way; I prefer to follow the strict letter of the GIRM. If my pastor tells me tomorrow that from now on he wants me to distribute next to him, and distribute the precious Body, I will and be happy. Although, in our formation the fact that the acolyte and deacon are instituted and ordained, respectfully, to minister the cup.I will tell you that at my Parish the Deacon - if present - distributes the eucharist next to the Priest.
Whether right or wrong - I don’t know, but I can tell you, other then on the alter to the EMs I have never seen our Deacon distribute the chalice.
The same goes for when our Seminarian is present
My comment about talking about the different species in different terms here on this thread was this post. I agree I might have read it too hastily. Sorry about that.
It’s just a pet peeve of min e to hear EMHC talking is the sacristy about distributing the Eucharist or the wine, “which are you today Sally?” This happens every weekend, drives me nuts. I have corrected them repeatedly, and they report me to my pastor.
Anyway, living in all the documents may be easy while sitting in the pew, but as I have stated many times and have been chastised for it, in the real world following the letter of the law is not as cut and dry as you may think.
PS. If I were to respond in the way some of us here to my pastor every time something is “not as the documents read,” I wouldn’t serve as deacon very long. Simple point is, its not always as simple as it looks to deal with people