In Cape Town, it’s a very common practice to offer blessings to children after the Adult receives the Blessed Sacrament; this rite is normally given by the ordained.
I have grave concerns when EMHC, or any laity gives blessings or prays for people during mass - this is commonly a practice amongst Charismatic Catholics, something that the local church fails to address - is their conduct during mass.
I think converts to the Catholic faith, due to their involvement from their past spiritual experiences in other churches, feel or believe it is their right to bestow blessings on others as a common thing. I have no issue with us praying for each other, but my catholic faith has taught me that be divine grace through the sacramental grace bestowed on St. Peter, which is transferred by the hands of the bishop, gives the ordained priest this power of blessings in the name of Christ our King, Lord and Saviour. His hands have been consecrated for this purpose.
I think that the RCIA process should teach the converts the practice of the faith, and should explain the differences of the laity and the ordained.
Charismatic’s in this regard should also be brought to book, as many hymns sung is not sacred music as defined in Redemptionis Sacramentum and other official instructions issued by the Holy Sea. The practices of replacing the Prayers of The Faithful with the laying of hands by lay ministers during Mass are also not in tune with the Order of Mass, as instructed by the Roman Missal. And the many other Liturgical violations…
The local bishops and the people attending these masses should voice their concerns regarding all this.
Our Archbishop is retiring in June/July, so I pray that the church in Cape Town will see a Bishop true to Rome and its principles.