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benedictgal
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Excellent post!I am a deacon myself, (ordained 5 1/2 years) and for what it’s worth here are my thoughts:
Sometimes I think we need to recall that the diaconate is not a ministry, it is a sacrament. Holy Orders ontologically changes a man forever. Not because he is worthy, but rather because our Lord Jesus has set him aside for sacred purpose. It’s not something that we “do” on Sundays, it’s something that we “are.” Not ten hours a week, not when it’s convenient.
- I do not sit with my wife at Mass - I always assist at Mass
- When we travel on vacation, I always contact the priest ahead of time and ask to serve as a deacon (I’ve **ALWAYS **been welcomed, and many times asked to preach as well – even in dioceses that do not have diaconate programs)
- I DO carry a photo ID identifying me as a Catholic deacon, but no one has ever asked to see it
- Even if a deacon was at a Mass with his family, he should assist with distributing Holy Communion – if an extraordinary AND an ordinary minister are both present at Mass, obviously the ordinary minister should distribute
- When there are a number of priests and deacons serving all day (e.g. for imposition of ashes or blessing of throats) if I am not serving as the deacon at Mass I vest and approach the Altar during the Sign of Peace to distribute Holy Communion at all the Masses.
- Someone mentioned something about needing faculties to serve elsewhere. Their point wasn’t exactly right. You don’t need “faculties” to serve as a deacon at another diocese. Canon law gives deacons the faculty to *preach *anywhere in the world, unless that faculty is restricted by particular (local diocesan) law (it RARELY is). But deacons don’t need faculties to simply serve as a deacon in the way that priests need a *celebret *if they are going to be serving in another diocese for an extended period of time.
If a man wants to serve the Church once in a while, or once a week, he should continue as a lector or EMHC or catechist, or the like. The diaconate is for those called to give himself completely to the Lord Jesus, whether convenient or inconvenient. To pray the Divine Office for the people of God every day for the rest of his life. To embrace a life of celibacy if his wife should pre-decease him. To be consumed for souls 7 x 24, and so on.
As an aside, I wonder if the Church should focus a bit more on fostering diaconal vocations of younger men. Instead of preparing sacred ministers that are in their 50s or 60s by the time they are ordained, maybe the goal should be candidates that are in their 30s and 40s at ordination. Men who have more energy and more time to serve Holy Mother Church.
God bless,