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Are you irritated when anyone says it, or just that specific family member?
Depends. If some says “godblessyou”, without stressing any particular word, then no. But when people take the obvious effort to say “GOD blessyou” or “GOD BLESS you”, then I just shake my head and walk away.

Come on. It’s a sneeze, not an invitation to proselytize.
 
Hey I’ll take just about any chance I can get to proselytize

Those who wait for invitations will die without winning one convert!

We’re talking eternal damnation here, if someone is a bit bothered by me referencing God at a time when it makes no sense not to (a “blessing” doesn’t mean much if it isn’t from God), then that’s a sacrifice I’m willing to make.
 
I don’t do much overtly Catholic stuff in public. If people can’t tell I’m Catholic by my actions, then rosaries dangling in my car, bumper stickers, T-shirts,etc., aren’t going to impress anybody.

I think what people notice most is what I don’t do:

I don’t use the Lord’s name in vain.

I don’t listen to or spread office gossip.

I don’t do lunch meetings at work because I go to noon Mass.

I don’t work on Sundays.

I don’t do any active prolife work except prayer, but If I am asked to support pro-choice local or national politicians, I say that I can’t because I’m one of those irrational pro-life Catholics. They don’t ask me again.
 
If people can’t tell I’m Catholic by my actions, then rosaries dangling in my car, bumper stickers, T-shirts,etc., aren’t going to impress anybody.
Well, they certainly could. Except the last thing you listed (whole list was great though!), none of that necessarily means you are Catholic, and unless the people know why you aren’t doing lunch meetings, it doesn’t even necessarily indicate you are religious either.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not trying to confuse true faith with external signs of it, but I think the latter has its place.
 
Well, they certainly could. Except the last thing you listed (whole list was great though!), none of that necessarily means you are Catholic, and unless the people know why you aren’t doing lunch meetings, it doesn’t even necessarily indicate you are religious either.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not trying to confuse true faith with external signs of it, but I think the latter has its place.
Yes, signs have their place. I’m just saying that I’m not good at them.
 
Most people would probably agree that living by example is the best means of evangelization. But this won’t be all that helpful to gaining converts if people seeing this don’t know what your faith is! In light of this, what aspects of your daily life are clear signs of your Catholicism, or at least religiousness? What sayings do you frequently find yourself using (“keep the faith”, “God bless” as a goodbye, etc.) that also show this?

For me:
-Wearing a crucifix
-Saying “God Bless” instead of “Bless You” after someone sneezes
-It is blatantly stated in my Facebook Profile
-Rosary beads visible in car

How about you all?

Thanks!
Those things aren’t evangelism.

In the Bible, evangelism always refers to preaching or presenting the Gospel to the lost.

They may be a way to demonstrate that you’re a Roman Catholic, but they don’t have anything to do with Biblical evangelism.
 
Those things aren’t evangelism.

In the Bible, evangelism always refers to preaching or presenting the Gospel to the lost.

They may be a way to demonstrate that you’re a Roman Catholic, but they don’t have anything to do with Biblical evangelism.
Evangelism is spreading the good news of Christ. Being a good person gains the trust of others. When others trust you, they are more likely to listen to you and agree with your views. Making the fact visible that you are a Roman Catholic is saying you believe that Jesus is the Son of God and the definition of good. This helps spread the good news of Christ.

It most certainly does have everything to do with evangelism.
 
Evangelism is spreading the good news of Christ.
…by the preaching of the Gospel.
Being a good person gains the trust of others.
I see. So then, are you a good person?
When others trust you, they are more likely to listen to you and agree with your views.
It isn’t about the evangelist. It’s about the Gospel. Either the Gospel stands on it’s own, or it doesn’t.

When I preach the Gospel, either the hearer is convicted by the power of the word of God or he isn’t. If he’s merely “convinced” because he trusts me, then I haven’t preached the Gospel faithfully and he isn’t saved.
Making the fact visible that you are a Roman Catholic is saying you believe that Jesus is the Son of God and the definition of good. This helps spread the good news of Christ.
No, it just tells them that you’re a Roman Catholic.
It most certainly does have everything to do with evangelism.
Not Biblical evangelism. Again, in the Bible, evangelism is always about the preaching of the Gospel, never about what jewelry you wear or what you say when somebody sneezes or what superstitions you believe in.
 
…by the preaching of the Gospel.

I see. So then, are you a good person?

It isn’t about the evangelist. It’s about the Gospel. Either the Gospel stands on it’s own, or it doesn’t.

When I preach the Gospel, either the hearer is convicted by the power of the word of God or he isn’t. If he’s merely “convinced” because he trusts me, then I haven’t preached the Gospel faithfully and he isn’t saved.

No, it just tells them that you’re a Roman Catholic.

Not Biblical evangelism. Again, in the Bible, evangelism is always about the preaching of the Gospel, never about what jewelry you wear or what you say when somebody sneezes or what superstitions you believe in.
Piecing up my argument does no good refuting the point I made. I showed, in simple terms, how giving outward signs of your own belief can help bring others to believe in Christ. I am bringing (yes, I have been successful) people to the faith and therefore helping them avoid damnation; I don’t care whether or not you personally will call it “Biblical Evangelism.”
 
Piecing up my argument does no good refuting the point I made. I showed, in simple terms, how giving outward signs of your own belief can help bring others to believe in Christ. I am bringing (yes, I have been successful) people to the faith and therefore helping them avoid damnation; I don’t care whether or not you personally will call it “Biblical Evangelism.”
OK. Humor me. Explain to me one more time how these things express the Gospel.
 
OK. Humor me. Explain to me one more time how these things express the Gospel.
How about expressing the 2 greatest commandments.
  1. Love the Lord your God with your Heart, Mind and Spirit.
    Everything we do is a reflection of our Love for God.
  2. Love your neighbor as yourself.
    Showing God’s Love in every interaction with our neighbors strenghens God’s love in their Hearts
All the other commandments and All of the Law are based on thse two. Therefore, everything that we do that shows God in Truth and Light, in our Minds, actions, interactions, conversations etc. is evangelizing.

Peace
James
 
How about explaining how they express the Gospel?
If I have to explain this to you then I can only suggest that you should speak to your pastor.

What I can tell you is this. I assume that you have come here partially to “Share the Gospel with us Catholics”. Thus to evangelize us. However, after going through and reading many of your posts I find that what you mostly do is antagonize people. So what credence do I give to you and the faith you are representing? The answer is little or none. Why? because if your behavior is any indication, I want to have nothing to do with your denomination.

Our Very Lives reflect our true faith.
What does your life say about yours?

Peace
James
 
If I have to explain this to you then I can only suggest that you should speak to your pastor.
Well, it’s your story. If you can’t explain it what makes you think that he can?
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So what credence do I give to you and the faith you are representing? The answer is little or none. Why? because if your behavior is any indication, I want to have nothing to do with your denomination.
And if you can’t even articulate the Gospel, I want nothing to do with yours.
Our Very Lives reflect our true faith.
What does your life say about yours?
It says that I’m growing in holiness, that I’m striving after God, and that I’m being faithful to the Gospel.
 
Well, it’s your story. If you can’t explain it what makes you think that he can?
I don’t know, why don’t you ask him?
And if you can’t even articulate the Gospel, I want nothing to do with yours.
You know nothing of what I can or cannot articulate. You asked me to explain something for you. I have done so to the best of my ability and in all Christian Charity. Your responses only re-enforce what I have said.
It says that I’m growing in holiness, that I’m striving after God, and that I’m being faithful to the Gospel.
That may be true, (though I doubt it) but while you are doing so, you are driving others further away from your position of holiness by your attitude.

Peace
James
 
I don’t know, why don’t you ask him?
First of all, I’ve known him for about twenty years and know that he knows what the Gospel is and is not.

Frankly, if you told him that the things you listed are the Gospel, he’d probably laught at you.

Second, you’re the one who made the claim, so it’s up to you to show some evidence for it.
You know nothing of what I can or cannot articulate.
So far, despite having been asked several times, you haven’t been able to articulate it.

Please feel free to prove me wrong by answering the question.
That may be true, (though I doubt it) but while you are doing so, you are driving others further away from your position of holiness by your attitude.
Honestly, I’ve shared the Gospel with literally thousands of people and not one of them has ever said that they were turned off by my attitude.

Frankly, I guess I’d rather preach the Gospel faithfully and have what you consider to be a bad attitude (for what, I have no idea), than to not know what the Gospel is, but be convinced that I’m preaching it.
 
First of all, I’ve known him for about twenty years and know that he knows what the Gospel is and is not.

Frankly, if you told him that the things you listed are the Gospel, he’d probably laught at you.

Second, you’re the one who made the claim, so it’s up to you to show some evidence for it.

So far, despite having been asked several times, you haven’t been able to articulate it.

Please feel free to prove me wrong by answering the question.

Honestly, I’ve shared the Gospel with literally thousands of people and not one of them has ever said that they were turned off by my attitude.

Frankly, I guess I’d rather preach the Gospel faithfully and have what you consider to be a bad attitude (for what, I have no idea), than to not know what the Gospel is, but be convinced that I’m preaching it.
Well I’m not going to continue this tit-for-tat merry-go-round.
Near as I can recall, you were asking about our preaching the Gospel through our actions. I responded to that with Jesus teaching regarding Loving God and each other. If one does this, then their faith and the Truth of God will shine into the lives of others. If this does not fit with you idea of evangelizing then I cannot help that.
If I am misunderstanding your position or have not answered an actual question then please restate and I will try to answer.

By the way, it has been my experience that most people won’t tell someone they are “turned off by their attitude”, they just start avoiding you.

Peace
James
 
Well I’m not going to continue this tit-for-tat merry-go-round.
Near as I can recall, you were asking about our preaching the Gospel through our actions. I responded to that with Jesus teaching regarding Loving God and each other. If one does this, then their faith and the Truth of God will shine into the lives of others. If this does not fit with you idea of evangelizing then I cannot help that.
If I am misunderstanding your position or have not answered an actual question then please restate and I will try to answer.
OK. Let’s try it this way:

In what way will the things you mentioned communicate to me that I am a sinner, in danger of God’s judgement, and that I need to be born again by repenting of my sins and putting my faith in Christ and His atonement on the cross on my behalf?
By the way, it has been my experience that most people won’t tell someone they are “turned off by their attitude”, they just start avoiding you.
Nobody has avoided me and it seems that, if they were really turned off by my attitude, we wouldn’t have parted on such good terms, I wouldn’t have become friends with many of them, and they wouldn’t have gotten saved.
 
OK. Let’s try it this way:

In what way will the things you mentioned communicate to me that I am a sinner, in danger of God’s judgement, and that I need to be born again by repenting of my sins and putting my faith in Christ and His atonement on the cross on my behalf?
Since you are so experienced at proclaiming the Gospel, I am sure that you recognize that certain people are ready to hear the Gospel and others are not. Yet by ministering to them in other ways, one “prepares the field” as it were. By ministering to others in loving ways, on the street, in the market, wherever we meet them with a smile, a God bless, a, “how can I help you” attitude we create a bond of trust and understnading. We show these people that our faith is one of compassion, understanding and forgiveness. All before this person is even ready to “hear the Gospel”.
Then, when the time is right; when the person has reached a crisis; then the person is looking for something to grab onto, they will think of their good friend, who never prejudged them; who never treated them in any way but kindly; who always seems to be confident and comfortable with life no matter what goes wrong.
That person who, through his or her daily display of loving Christianity, “does to the least of my brothers” can instill more love for God than all the “you gotta git saved” preaching there ever was.

That is the best answer I have.

Peace
James
 
OK. Humor me. Explain to me one more time how these things express the Gospel.
What I said remains. They fulfill the definition of “evangelism” by aiding in the journey of others to Christ. Very simple. If someone praises me as a good person, that’s nice; it is far better if something I do makes him realize I believe that Christ is God, and then himself seeks the same path. I made this thread to see what things people on this forum do that clue others into their belief. There is really no need for this argument you are presenting; can you please leave this thread alone if you don’t have anything to contribute?
 
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