Dealing with anti-Catholicism and frustration

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If I were you I would focus less on those outside the Catholic church and deal with the misinformation that is RAMPANT from within the church. Parishoners who claim to be Catholic are spreading lies also!. My mother in law told me that living together before marriage and Artificial birth control are accepted.

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Hi!

…yep!

…“Catholics” are just as the rest of those “Christians” that circumvent God’s Commandment as they claim that their “conscience” dictates it’s OK–your mother-in-law is a hollowood spiritualist: ‘if its in a show/movie (throw in the “net,” as well), then it must be God’s law!’

Maran atha!

Angel
 
MT 1926: Thanks for your response! The main problem I think seems to me to be one of ignorance of what the Catholic Church teaches. This is due in part to how they were brought up in whatever church they belong to, where the preacher or minister preaches hatred towards anyone and especially the Catholic Church bases primarily on whatever they think or heard without really ever looking to see if it is true or not. Also I see so many times those who promote hatred use whatever verses they think proves their point, yet never really understand the story and the point that was being made by the authors of the Biblical stories they took the verse from.They in turn decide that whatever meaning they wish to apply based on their own private interpretations decide what they say is the only correct meaning and any other meaning is wrong especially if it comes from the Catholic Church or Catholic poster…
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         I sometimes wonder if what the Catholic poster or the Catholic Church teaching was presented by some non-Catholic if they would agree with the post or not? Also I sometimes wonder if the Catholic hater posting anti Catholic posts really hate or just trying to cause confusion and hate to see what posters are going to say? IDK if that is even true but more a thought on my part when i read many of the posts by anti Catholic posters. I wonder if you other might shed some light on that  if possible.

    I also think the Catholic poster on any of the anti Catholic sites decides to post that it is well thought out and to the point without spewing any hate as to be drawn into the hate cycle does nothing to promote the truth. **Also the Catholic poster on those sites need to remember there are many who do not post anything but read what is posted and so thereby might decide that what the catholic poster posted  is worth looking into and may help that person to come to the Catholic Church**.
Hi!

…though I do not usually do so (post in anti-Catholic sites), I concur with you that if a Catholic person decides to engage any forum, he/she must take into consideration that there are three levels of audiences: Christians (both Catholic and non-Catholic), atheist (the whole spectrum), and people who are truly seeking answers. So when a Catholic posts he/she should not be seeking a “win” or “conversion;” rather, the goal is to represent Christ, through our Catholic Faith!

Maran atha!

Angel
 
Hi jcrichton: I agree with your post 100%. I see no point in getting into arguments one is not going to win with those who disagree and have their own agenda. The best we as catholic’s can do if one is going to be on any anti-Catholic site is to state the truth to the best of their ability and then allow others to say what they will. Those who are reasonable in their thinking will maybe at some point either agree or not. I think that most are not going to change their minds if they are bent on promoting anti-Catholic views, yet they are those who do read the posts and might come to understand the Catholic position and understand the truth of what a Catholic posted. I believe that when a Catholic posts on a anti-Catholic site that they are planting the seeds of truth. That way those who do the watering can then do what might be needed to foster; that is help the seeds to grow. We may never see the results of the seeds we plant but in the end the truth will always come out at some point.
There are plenty of reasons as to why there are anti-catholic's, it maybe for many they way they were taught about Catholic's,For others it just maybe plain ignorance of Catholic faith and teachings. yet, for others,They have some beef with something within the Catholic Church or some priest or Catholic in how they had been treated. We do not always know what all the reasons are. The best the catholic poster can do is present the truth according to Catholic teachings and leave it at that and let others decide..
 
Hi jcrichton: I agree with your post 100%. I see no point in getting into arguments one is not going to win with those who disagree and have their own agenda. The best we as catholic’s can do if one is going to be on any anti-Catholic site is to state the truth to the best of their ability and then allow others to say what they will. Those who are reasonable in their thinking will maybe at some point either agree or not. I think that most are not going to change their minds if they are bent on promoting anti-Catholic views, yet they are those who do read the posts and might come to understand the Catholic position and understand the truth of what a Catholic posted. I believe that when a Catholic posts on a anti-Catholic site that they are planting the seeds of truth. That way those who do the watering can then do what might be needed to foster; that is help the seeds to grow. We may never see the results of the seeds we plant but in the end the truth will always come out at some point.
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          There are plenty of reasons as to why there are anti-catholic's, it maybe for many they way they were taught about Catholic's,For others it just maybe plain ignorance of Catholic faith and teachings. yet, for others,They have some beef with something within the Catholic Church or some priest or Catholic in how they had been treated. We do not always know what all the reasons are. The best the catholic poster can do is present the truth according to Catholic teachings and leave it at that and let others decide..
Hi!

…what I find interesting about engagement is that, if we are humble enough to listen, the Holy Spirit can take advantage of the exchange by helping us grow both in the knowledge of Scriptures and Church Doctrine… and to deepen our Faith.

We must be cautious though… as with everything, we cannot become fixated in changing the minds of others or allow our “feelings” to get the best of us.

We can only offer our best efforts–which is why is necessary for our personal catechesis to continue throughout our lifetime; too many Catholics stop learning just about the time when they receive their First Communion. Instead of becoming consumed with convincing others to “turn to the Light,” we must simply pray that the Holy Spirit convicts them of the Truth!

Maran atha!

Angel
 
Hi jcrichton: Thanks for your response! I agree with your statement about listening to the Holy Spirit and allowing the Holy Spirit to guide us in any engagement in promoting catholic knowledge and Catholic teachings. Its never about trying to convert by force or to cause hatred with those who disagree with us on a religious issue being debated. Being human as e are our emotions do sometimes get in the way but we do have to set it aside so as not to cause bitter feelings because someone does not agree or that something said or posted is something that does cause the emotion to go out o hand; at least try anyway.

Yes, it seems to me that so many Catholic’s of today are not being catechesised or have not continued in learning about their catholic faith. Moreover, I noticed many Catholic today are Catholic’s in name only and do not even know or understand what their Catholic faith is, so are pron to changing to some other religious teaching assuming others know more than they about the Bible and what it says and means so are easily swayed.

It seems to me whenever a Catholic posts on a anti-Catholic site or engages with someone concerning what catholic teaching is we much allow the Holy Spirit to not just guide us in what we say but to allow the Holy Spirit to do His work. However since man has free will we do and must allow others to form and decide for themselves what they are going to believe or not. It is not for ourselves to force the issue or make one by some force of our words to bind one to the truth. if they allow the Holy Spirit to infuse them with understanding that what the truth really is as opposed to what they once thought the truth was then they will come to know catholic teachings are true. WE need to remember that Jesus Himself never forced anyone to agree with Him or to believe in Him and what he did and said. He allowed them to either com to him or not. If we take the same thinking Jesus did , those who her us will either come to the truth the Catholic Church teaches or not we will do far better than to fight hate with hate.
 
Hi jcrichton: Thanks for your response! I agree with your statement about listening to the Holy Spirit and allowing the Holy Spirit to guide us in any engagement in promoting catholic knowledge and Catholic teachings. Its never about trying to convert by force or to cause hatred with those who disagree with us on a religious issue being debated. Being human as e are our emotions do sometimes get in the way but we do have to set it aside so as not to cause bitter feelings because someone does not agree or that something said or posted is something that does cause the emotion to go out o hand; at least try anyway.

Yes, it seems to me that so many Catholic’s of today are not being catechesised or have not continued in learning about their catholic faith. Moreover, I noticed many Catholic today are Catholic’s in name only and do not even know or understand what their Catholic faith is, so are pron to changing to some other religious teaching assuming others know more than they about the Bible and what it says and means so are easily swayed.

It seems to me whenever a Catholic posts on a anti-Catholic site or engages with someone concerning what catholic teaching is we much allow the Holy Spirit to not just guide us in what we say but to allow the Holy Spirit to do His work. However since man has free will we do and must allow others to form and decide for themselves what they are going to believe or not. It is not for ourselves to force the issue or make one by some force of our words to bind one to the truth. if they allow the Holy Spirit to infuse them with understanding that what the truth really is as opposed to what they once thought the truth was then they will come to know catholic teachings are true. WE need to remember that Jesus Himself never forced anyone to agree with Him or to believe in Him and what he did and said. He allowed them to either com to him or not. If we take the same thinking Jesus did , those who her us will either come to the truth the Catholic Church teaches or not we will do far better than to fight hate with hate.
Hi!

…I like what you said about Jesus… it brought to mind His Words (those who have eyes, ears…) and His determination not to water down His Teachings but to insist on it (if you do not eat/chew, drink… life is not in you); further, we have His declaration to the Disciples that there were things He still had to convey to them but that they were not strong enough in the Faith to understand them so He would Send the Holy Spirit, the other Paraclete, Who would bring the Church to the Fullness of the Truth!

So we must put our “self” aside and allow the Holy Spirit to both Guide us and those who we wish to bring into the Mystical Body of Christ.

…though it is quite sad that both marginal “Catholics” and devote Catholics do not engage each other in an effort to solidify the Knowledge and Practice of the Faith.

Maran atha!

Angel
 
Hi jcrichton: Thanks for your kind words! Yes i totally agree with you and you make a lot of sense in your words. Yes, its sad we have marginal Catholic’s who either do not know their Catholic faith or were not taught their faith. As for other Christians while many do seem to know what they have been taught what is the saddest is those who are anti-Catholic or anti anyone who does not agree with their particular personal interpretations of Scripture. The Holy Spirit indeed guides all to the truth but only if one had eyes to see and ears to hear…
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       How many times times did those listening to Jesus preach and teach walk away? Many it seems and it sure made jesus very sad but he did not try to force them to believe either in His works or in what he taught and preached. I think that is a lesson for all of us in that we should and can bring forth the truth as the Catholic Church teaches but we should never try and force anyone. When we try to force what we believe on those who don't believe as we do all there is is arguments and when people argue no one listens since in the end all one is doing is trying to make their opinions and thoughts override the other's  and so no one gains anything.

      As Catholic's we are Christians and so we follow the teachings of Christ but also follow Jesus's example in how we treat others. WE do a real disservice when we try and force what we believe on others as they will turn aways from anything said. Even if one dis agrees maybe later they might rethink what was said and come to understand the truth that was told to them. WE may never know but that is not the point as the point being is speak the truth and let it ring loud and clear and the Holy Spirit will do the rest if a person is open to the Holy Spirit.
 
Hi jcrichton: Thanks for your kind words! Yes i totally agree with you and you make a lot of sense in your words. Yes, its sad we have marginal Catholic’s who either do not know their Catholic faith or were not taught their faith. As for other Christians while many do seem to know what they have been taught what is the saddest is those who are anti-Catholic or anti anyone who does not agree with their particular personal interpretations of Scripture. The Holy Spirit indeed guides all to the truth but only if one had eyes to see and ears to hear…
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       How many times times did those listening to Jesus preach and teach walk away? Many it seems and it sure made jesus very sad but he did not try to force them to believe either in His works or in what he taught and preached. I think that is a lesson for all of us in that we should and can bring forth the truth as the Catholic Church teaches but we should never try and force anyone. When we try to force what we believe on those who don't believe as we do all there is is arguments and when people argue no one listens since in the end all one is doing is trying to make their opinions and thoughts override the other's  and so no one gains anything.

      As Catholic's we are Christians and so we follow the teachings of Christ but also follow Jesus's example in how we treat others. WE do a real disservice when we try and force what we believe on others as they will turn aways from anything said. Even if one dis agrees maybe later they might rethink what was said and come to understand the truth that was told to them. WE may never know but that is not the point as the point being is speak the truth and let it ring loud and clear and the Holy Spirit will do the rest if a person is open to the Holy Spirit.
Hi!

…I find that there are two keys to an exchange… first, make as educated and clear statements as possible (this means that we must Know Scriptures and the Faith we profess), clarifying any issue that may arise without taking umbrage when others seek clarification or blatantly reject the argument; second, as that ole saying goes, “know when to fold them;” sometimes people get so caught up in the attempt to convert/change others that they get into a circular rut and they refuse to let the exchange die/terminate…

When we engage others our whole aim should not be “I want to win this argument;” rather, it should be “how would I best represent the Church to the Glory of Christ?”

Maran atha!

Angel
 
Hi jcrichton: Wow! You hit the nail on the head with your statement! Yes, its not about winning the argument but informing with truth and knowing Scripture and our Catholic faith and the Church’s teachings. If we don’t know we put ourselves in harms way and mislead and misguide others from the truth and likewise are not in any position to refute falsehoods from the truth if we don’t know or understand what the truth is. It becomes a disservice.
I also agree with the fold them since its never wise to argue with someone who is not listening to what you are saying or does not care as to what you say because that person's agenda is to promote his ideals of what he believes the truth according to his personal interpretations and or bias one has against whatever the Catholic Church teaches or Catholic's in general. We as Catholic's need not be rude or disrespectful to those who have the anti-Catholic agenda but instead take the high road setting the example of how Christ would handle it.
 
Hi jcrichton: Wow! You hit the nail on the head with your statement! Yes, its not about winning the argument but informing with truth and knowing Scripture and our Catholic faith and the Church’s teachings. If we don’t know we put ourselves in harms way and mislead and misguide others from the truth and likewise are not in any position to refute falsehoods from the truth if we don’t know or understand what the truth is. It becomes a disservice.
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            I also agree with the fold them since its never wise to argue with someone who is not listening to what you are saying or does not care as to what you say because  that person's agenda is to promote his ideals of what he believes the truth according to his personal interpretations and or bias one has against whatever the Catholic Church teaches or Catholic's in general. We as Catholic's need not be rude or disrespectful to those who have the anti-Catholic agenda but instead take the high road setting the example of how Christ would handle it.
Hi!

…I must confess that in the heat of the moment a person can get defensive… I’ve often have upped the argument from a passive to an aggressive mode… but I always do my best to not be harmful/spiteful.

I’ve noticed that, in a face to face exchange, when truth/facts are lacking there’s a tendency to raise one’s voice (something that can be countered by maintaining a leveled head or by terminating the exchange)… on the net it is impossible to raise one’s voice so people tend to engage in kamikaze attacks–they believe that by hurling a huge amount of topics and claims they can, just through sheer power, overwhelm the other party. In reality this practice only shows that they are ignorant (lacking veracity and facts) and that they are desperate to win, “no holds bars.”

…again, as a Catholic, one must dully remember that we are to Emulate Christ, and, as you’ve stated from the beginning, put away the need to convert others by allowing the Holy Spirit to do His Job: Convict man of his error and Convert his heart and mind to God (yeah, I’ve paraphrased your statement–sorry! :p).

Maran atha!

Angel
 
I can certainly understand the frustration. There have been so many instances where I see an article related to the church or the Pope, only to find a barrage of comments not even related to the article.

How we respond really is key because we certainly don’t want to sow discontent. I’ve been guilty of this at times. One of things that helped me in coming back to the faith after years of agnosticism is because I began recognizing the answers given by those defending the church were thoughtful in their approach and usually offered context.

I find that if they do respond without acknowledging your answer or deflect to another issue, then any discussion is a waste of time. They are not interested in thinking and have already made up their mind.

One thing I find that works is agreeing with them. Not on the issue per se but try to find some common ground with their objection. This will work wonders as they will find you are sensitive to their opinion and it may defuse their anger. I also notice that when Bishop Barron responds to people, he usually refers to them as “friend.” I think this is a healthy approach because it shows respect even if you don’t agree.

Otherwise, the best thing I’ve come up with is to let is slide, as hard as that sounds. I say a prayer thanking God for giving me the grace in recognizing the truth.
 
Hi jcrichton: This is great your post! I confess i to have been guilty of doing the some thing at times. I tend to think its human nature to do so as we all like to think our opinions matter and we like to think we are correct in whatever we are saying in defence of what facts we know and assume to know… I know in years past I have fallen prey to raising my voice over what I thought is correct as well as wanting to present my side or viewpoint stronger than those I am confronting.
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                However, its never good and one never in the end find any common ground in which to debate in a civil manor whatever issues we are speaking about religious wise and sometimes other issues as well. Controlling ones emotions in the heat of an argument is always the best course to take and when one finds oneself having a hard time controlling ones emotions then maybe its time to walk away. I do think there is nothing wrong in being angry at times but its how we use the anger. if used unwisely, there is a loss and no gain.

                 I agree with you thought which is a true one that kamikaze attacks and the veracity that is lacking in facts and now a new way of describing it as alternative facts based upon one's own personal interpretations and from whatever source they had learned it from without ever checking to see if its really true or not. Its almost I think they have been brainwashed into believing what they have been told in addition to personal interpretations to fit their notions of meaning and the desire to convince others of what they state as true in the my way or the highway thinking. 

               One thing I have noticed is that they tend to use verses that is they pick and choose whatever seems to them to make their point, when in fact is has really nothing to do with the issue being debated. I also noticed that they seldom answer a question but play all around it or countering a question with another question in order to divert attention to the the original question which then becomes frustrating. if and when I post anything on any anti-Catholic site I am not all that interested in debating or arguing but state my viewpoint with fact and leave it at that. Those who read it will either like what was said or not. Many are rude disrespectful and mean spirited and are only wanting to use whatever means of viciousness to try and force one to convert by making whatever seems to work like you are going to hell etc.

               I don't feel the need to try and prove every thing I say. I try to be as truthful as i can be and state what facts i have to support my position and then let other decide for themselves. Otherwise I will only end up playing their game of how rude and disrespectful can I be which then leads to going astray from the original discourse and losing whatever truth or point of fact that had been made. Knowledge is powerful when used properly, but its not used rightly causes distainment of the truth and the real facts used in order to promote the truth.
 
I can certainly understand the frustration. There have been so many instances where I see an article related to the church or the Pope, only to find a barrage of comments not even related to the article.

How we respond really is key because we certainly don’t want to sow discontent. I’ve been guilty of this at times. One of things that helped me in coming back to the faith after years of agnosticism is because I began recognizing the answers given by those defending the church were thoughtful in their approach and usually offered context.

I find that if they do respond without acknowledging your answer or deflect to another issue, then any discussion is a waste of time. They are not interested in thinking and have already made up their mind.
One thing I find that works is agreeing with them. Not on the issue per se but try to find some common ground with their objection. This will work wonders as they will find you are sensitive to their opinion and it may defuse their anger. I also notice that when Bishop Barron responds to people, he usually refers to them as “friend.” I think this is a healthy approach because it shows respect even if you don’t agree.

Otherwise, the best thing I’ve come up with is to let is slide, as hard as that sounds. I say a prayer thanking God for giving me the grace in recognizing the truth.
Hi, Michael!

Welcome back Home!

…I fully concur with the highlighted statement–it is the gauge to determine what is being sought in spite of the introductory argument (sometimes there are feigned “seeking answers” or “not meaning to offend…” clauses). So I engage as much as I can… when the circle becomes obvious I disengage–always as courteous as possible.

…I also find that acknowledging points of communality (agreement) is an excellent coolant–sometimes people are seeking acknowledgment and recognition that they matter… so a “friend” or “I see” or “I agree/understand” does go a long way (as well as not being elitist: do not speak/text above their comprehension and be respectful not to use typo or poor vocabulary as a means to debase/win the argument).

Maran atha!

Angel
 
Hi Michael Arc: Great you are home! I agree with you about how we respond. Its easy to fall into arguing with someone who is more interested in promoting some type of hatred because of whatever ; something the Catholic Church did or said or what they may have learned from their particular church they go to and feel that that the only way to convert others to what they believe is through hate.
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          jcrichton made an excellent point in that sometimes one is just seeking answers and when there is common ground where agreement is had can be a basis for fruitful exchange. To me being offensive never seems to work as in the end we either walk away or discount whatever was said by the person or persons one is engaging in.

          It is true Michael many times when we engage in debating and issue the  other one will deflect or not acknowledge the question or comment. This very true of one who has already made up their mind and is not interested in anything the other has to say. All one can at that point is walk away hard that maybe.
 
hi jcrichton: This is great your post! I confess i to have been guilty of doing the some thing at times. I tend to think its human nature to do so as we all like to think our opinions matter and we like to think we are correct in whatever we are saying in defence of what facts we know and assume to know… I know in years past i have fallen prey to raising my voice over what i thought is correct as well as wanting to present my side or viewpoint stronger than those i am confronting.
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                However, its never good and one never in the end find any common ground in which to debate in a civil manor whatever issues we are speaking about religious wise and sometimes other issues as well. Controlling ones emotions in the heat of an argument is always the best course to take and when one finds oneself having a hard time controlling ones emotions then maybe its time to walk away. **i do think there is nothing wrong in being angry at times but its how we use the anger. If used unwisely, there is a loss and no gain.**
Hi!

I fully concur. Our lord got angry a few times (that were documented); but his anger was not allowed to boil over; so our human nature would cause anger to emerge on the face of wrongful attacks to our ego/self, the church or our faith… But exploding or submitting to the assailant does nothing to correct the error/anti-catholic mind-set. Rather, it gives ammunition to the perpetrators and offers them further excuse to be anti-god/church.
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 i agree with you thought which is a true one that kamikaze attacks and the veracity that is lacking in facts and now a new way of describing it as alternative facts based upon one's own personal interpretations and from whatever source they had learned it from without ever checking to see if its really true or not. Its almost i think they have been brainwashed into believing what they have been told in addition to personal interpretations to fit their notions of meaning and the desire to convince others of what they state as true in the my way or the highway thinking.
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               One thing i have noticed is that they tend to use verses that is they pick and choose whatever seems to them to make their point, when in fact is has really nothing to do with the issue being debated. I also noticed that they seldom answer a question but play all around it or countering a question with another question in order to divert attention to the the original question which then becomes frustrating. If and when i post anything on any anti-catholic site i am not all that interested in debating or arguing but state my viewpoint with fact and leave it at that. Those who read it will either like what was said or not. Many are rude disrespectful and mean spirited and are only wanting to use whatever means of viciousness to try and force one to convert by making whatever seems to work like you are going to hell etc.
…yeah this is specially so of hardcore anti-catholics and jws–they are blinded by both indoctrination and personal perceptions… They profess to abide by the word of god but their understanding is, as you’ve said, pick, choose, and twist… It’s like those geniuses that when the pieces of a jigsaw puzzle do not fit they pound on them to force a fitting! :banghead::banghead::banghead:

…sadly, rudeness and disrespect are signs of anger (a state of anger) common to those who cannot find happiness in their existence… there’s that old saying: “misery loves company.” These poor folks are so given to their disenchantment with their life’s experiences that they lash out at any convenient target. The Church has a huge bullseye on her since she insists on Teaching the Gospel of Truth.

So it is not beyond them to use falsehoods (myths and other anti-Catholic propaganda), half-truths (facts injected with huge dose of bias) and personal grudges to construct their views of the Church and her members.
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            I don't feel the need to try and prove every thing i say. I try to be as truthful as i can be and state what facts i have to support my position and then let other decide for themselves. Otherwise i will only end up playing their game of how rude and disrespectful can i be which then leads to going astray from the original discourse and losing whatever truth or point of fact that had been made. **Knowledge is powerful when used properly, but its not used rightly causes distainment of the truth and the real facts used in order to promote the truth.**
…yeah, I’ve experience that… some people have the need to throw in “titles” when they fear that they are losing their argument; they also tend to use Scriptures to hammer down Scriptures (though I’m not sure how aware they are of their futility on this particular endeavor)… the Apostles urge that we defend the Faith, but they caution that we must do so in love and respect!

Maran atha!

Angel
 
What does everyone here do when they witness something anti-Catholic, someone spreading lies about the faith etc. and there’s nothing they can really do about it?

For example, I just read a comment on a (pretty liberal) website, where the person misrepresented the Inquisition and was bashing the Church over it. Now, sometimes, I’ll try to respond to something like that, but from experience I know that on this website, any attempt to defend the Church will result in other people coming to attack it.

But it’s so frustrating to just not reply, even though I know it’s the smart thing to do! The same thing will happen on Twitter, for example - I’ll see people saying anti-Catholic things, and because they’re complete strangers (and often there’s more than one of them), I’ve just got to leave it and say nothing.

(And I know, I need to try not to read comments etc. but it’s hard to ignore them even when you know it’ll just make you angry)

Usually now, I’ll just try saying a prayer or two, and that sometimes helps, but what does everyone else recommend?
Come to Catholic Answers and post here instead.

Seriously.

Your time will be better spent, and those who read your posts will be more appreciative. 👍
 
What does everyone here do when they witness something anti-Catholic, someone spreading lies about the faith etc. and there’s nothing they can really do about it?

For example, I just read a comment on a (pretty liberal) website, where the person misrepresented the Inquisition and was bashing the Church over it. Now, sometimes, I’ll try to respond to something like that, but from experience I know that on this website, any attempt to defend the Church will result in other people coming to attack it.

But it’s so frustrating to just not reply, even though I know it’s the smart thing to do! The same thing will happen on Twitter, for example - I’ll see people saying anti-Catholic things, and because they’re complete strangers (and often there’s more than one of them), I’ve just got to leave it and say nothing.

(And I know, I need to try not to read comments etc. but it’s hard to ignore them even when you know it’ll just make you angry)

Usually now, I’ll just try saying a prayer or two, and that sometimes helps, but what does everyone else recommend?
Over the years I have heard non-Catholic people on CAF and elsewhere say that what turned them to the Catholic faith were the holes they found in their own faith. That they couldn’t justify some of the beliefs they had. And so that started them searching.

I think if the person that is casting aspersions against the Catholic faith hears some of the misconceptions and errors of his own faith, that might start him down the road searching for the truth. So instead of answering his objections to the Catholic faith, find out what he believes in and then show him the hole he believes in. It puts the monkey on his back.
 
What does everyone here do when they witness something anti-Catholic, someone spreading lies about the faith etc. and there’s nothing they can really do about it?

For example, I just read a comment on a (pretty liberal) website, where the person misrepresented the Inquisition and was bashing the Church over it. Now, sometimes, I’ll try to respond to something like that, but from experience I know that on this website, any attempt to defend the Church will result in other people coming to attack it.

But it’s so frustrating to just not reply, even though I know it’s the smart thing to do! The same thing will happen on Twitter, for example - I’ll see people saying anti-Catholic things, and because they’re complete strangers (and often there’s more than one of them), I’ve just got to leave it and say nothing.

(And I know, I need to try not to read comments etc. but it’s hard to ignore them even when you know it’ll just make you angry)

Usually now, I’ll just try saying a prayer or two, and that sometimes helps, but what does everyone else recommend?
Thought you might be interested in seeing one of my comments to an a-C.

youtube.com/watch?v=_XsG-Db4SZs

Make sure it’s listing newest comments first, mine seems to reset to top comments, and my comment will be the reply to Jesse Gaytan. My guess is he is a seventh day adventist.

As I said earlier just stick to the facts. Believe me it was tough not to take a few stabs at him, but we have to live our Faith with our actions as well as our words.
 
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