dealing with EF/OF tension

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Robert, please check my signature. I’m sorry but I won’t respond to your post. If you write your post without placing your responses in my quote I will be happy to discuss your points. Right now I won’t even read them. I would love to debate with you and I hope we can.

If you need to know how to split up a quote I’ll be happy to explain it to you.

I have brain damage and I can’t follow threads where people don’t keep their quotes as their own and leave mine alone. I can’t respond without going through a lot of work to split up your words from mine. I shouldn’t have to do that and others shouldn’t have to pick your words out of my quote. There are a lot of people on CAF who feel the same as I do.

I hope you understand. God bless.
 
No way! no way no way no way! It is true the new mass is valid meaning Our Lord is made present. The new Mass is not theologically sound and is teaching deficient.

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The “new Mass” is not teaching deficient. Since the Mass is presented in the vernacular, people actually understand what is being said. The “new Mass” is perfectly fine in terms of transubstantiation and the Last Supper IS the Mass. We are doing what Jesus ordered us to do - to consume His Body.

Your first video shows someone stating that the term “Tridentine Mass” is a misnomer, yet in the title of the video he uses the terms “The True Catholic Mass” as opposed to “The New Catholic Mass.” These are both misnomers.

I haven’t had time to watch the rest of the video or the second video, although I will. But his use of these terms is a red flag (not to mention the video is on youtube) and is probably not approved by the Church.
 
I have been reading the posts and some very good points are being made.There is much talk as to which one people do or do not want to go to.There some points to keep in mind from someone who lived through these changes… FIRST 40 years ago there was no debate these changes were forced on us , it didn’t matter if we wanted them or not! If it had been a vote then I am sure that most people didn’t want them (at least in my area) Also even now it is not very easy to find an EF mass.I think that this is the reason feelings from trads run so high.We were given no choice then or now , why shoud anyone have to drive an hour or more to go to mass? Does the people who want OF have to do this? would the do this? Most bishops are not doing what the Holy Father intended…to make it there for ANYONE who wants it! If there were one in every parash we would learn from each other and maybe become “brothers in Christ” again. Just my humble thought.
 
Since the Mass is presented in the vernacular, people actually understand what is being said.
Does this mean attending other than his own vernacular, one cannot understand what is being said nor the significance of the rubrics? :confused:
 
No way! no way no way no way! It is true the new mass is valid meaning Our Lord is made present. The new Mass is not theologically sound and is teaching deficient.
Putting it this way is one of the causes of the tension. I think we need to assume that the theology and teaching are adequate, since the OF is promulgated with the authority of the Church. I would agree that a side by side comparison shows that the theology and teaching are clearer and richer in the EF.
 
This is very interesting. I too have a situation where my Wife prefers the OF and I prefer the TLM. Cardinal Ratzinger has been quoted saying (I believe this is in the preface to Organic Development of the Liturgy by Alcuin Reid) that the liturgy is a reflection of God and that there have been churches that have gone into schism over the smallest changes such as the Priest doing the sign of the cross connnecting two fingers instead of three (I paraphrased and didn’t quote him verbatum).

The point is that people are very sensitive about what liturgy they attend and respect and charity and pastoral concern must be shown for all. This is what the Holy Father is trying to do. I respect the OF and its existence in the Roman rite and although I know it is valid I respectfully disagree with a lot of the liturgcal reforms implemented in the 1969 missal.

My Wife and I debate and disagree about the forms of the Mass but I don’t get mad at her for it. The debate keeps balance in our Marriage. She keeps me from becoming an overbearing Pharisaical Traditionalist and I keep reminding her of the importance of Tradition in our liturgys. This is the sort of tension between the OF and the EF which if handled with true charity can actually be of great benefit to providing balance to a parish community. It also helps my Wife and I to learn how to discuss these things respectfully and honestly in our Marriage and it fosters respect and understanding and through it my Wife and I can learn a lot more about each other and grow in deeper love and appreciation for each other. It is good to have this balance in a Marriage (at least it has been for me). it is not good to be Married to someone who just goes a long with everything you want but someone who challenges you to go deeper.

And although I am a huge advocate of Traditional forms of worship I have to always keep in mind that these things are not necessary for salvation and that there is no point in beating people up over it. If a person is faithful and is praying and fasting he/she will grow Holy whether she attends the OF or EF. The big problem is really not the liturgy as much as it is that people don’t deny themselves anymore and they don’t pray.

That being said, I just think generally the TLM fosters a deeper reverence which fosters humility which is the foundation of virtue. It also embodies Traditions like Ad Orientum which have great Theological significance and can help all people in the formation of their faith.

Cardinal Ratzinger in his book milestones stated that (I paraphrase him)a lot of the problem was when the new missal was introduced it was set over and against the EF and this did great harm. Until we recognize that both OF and EF should co exist this tension will continue. The Popes plan is not one of destroying one rite in favor of another but one of co existence of the two forms. Have both available and then you end the argument over this stuff because pastoral concerns for both those preferring the OF and EF are met and we can stop fighting about it.

The Holy Father said he desires the EF to be in every parish and be offered by all pastors of souls for all souls (see the EWTN instruction video on the EF for the talk by Cardinal Hoyos.) I can only speak from a perspective of a person who loves the EF and I say this not to downgrade anyone but I think the reason a lot of people who attend the EF get defensive or come off as “angry” is because the equality of co existence the Holy Father is calling for is not being adherred to and in many cases is being blocked outright. Right now I am trying to get the EF to be offered in my parish that has a Life Teen guitar Mass and a horid “Old Folks” choir Mass and I get people offering resistence to it. They don’t want it and it is often because they don’t understand its importance or the need to take pastoral concern for those who have an affinity for this form of worship. We who love the EF are not a small group of say 100 Catholics that want to hold onto Nostalgia, we are a huge group of people and are growing exponentially that are often just completely dismissed when trying to place this Mass somewhere in a diocese (e.g. half of those that still attend Mass in France attend the EF at SSPX chapels, hence why Summorum Pontificum was so important). OF attendees typically don’t have to drive 3 hours to get to their Mass or are called schismatics or heretics or told they are denying Vatican II if they just suggest Latin in the liturgy. Often if we state we want the EF people just try to shove a “Fr. Fessio Mass” down our throats ingoring any or all of the issues we have with it. Beleive me, many of a faithful Catholic rejects Tradition out of ignorance. My point is not to incriminate but to provide understanding to those that prefer the OF, the reason we get defensive and fight is because in most parishs in todays Church there is a very real lack of pastoral concern for people with an affinity for the EF and this causes us deep sadness which turns to anger and will continue to breed infighting. So I think the key is not to try to answer this debate over the liturgy but as the Holy Father wants try to meet the pastoral concerns for all. The Holy Father said there is no possible harm that could be done by offering the EF so I think as Catholics the proper attitude is one of co existence. If people attend the OF and it is helping them keep the faith then by all means I don’t want to take that away from you but don’t deny me my right to my Spiritual Patrimony in the EF either. i think once we can accept a co-existence and when there is much more equality as far as availability of the EF this divide will begin to heal.

God Bless!
 
I think what everyone has to remember is that both are equally valid, both are theologically sound, and what it really comes down to is a matter of preference.
We immediately run into the hostility of so many bishops to the traditional Latin Mass for decades (and still often today): clearly, they did not view it as a matter of mere preference.

The problem is that there are religious issues which are terribly important, but upon which orthodox Catholics may disagree. Disagreeing on something so important requires holiness–and we too often are not holy.
 
No way! no way no way no way! It is true the new mass is valid meaning Our Lord is made present. The new Mass is not theologically sound and is teaching deficient.
That is your position and I guess of YouTube.:rotfl:It is not the position of the Catholic Church. You are a prime example of why such conflict exist, by the way. This “My Mass is better than your Mass” attitude does nothing but cause dissension. Most Catholics get their instruction from the bishops, priests, the Vatican and not YouTube.
 
Does this mean attending other than his own vernacular, one cannot understand what is being said nor the significance of the rubrics? :confused:
The chances of one understanding what is being said, especially when taking age into consideration, are much less if one attends a Mass not spoken in the vernacular. One can understand what is being said and the significance of the rubrics, depending on the person but I don’t think it is true in a general sense, at least speaking from my own experience, which includes talking to many people who attended TLM at the time I did and even now.

When I was a child I attended TLM every single Sunday and I was bored out of my mind. I had no idea what was being said. I understood Holy Communion a bit because I had received the minimum teaching on it. But I did not understand the prayers and the rest of the Mass. I didn’t even understand what the hymns were saying even though they were familiar to me.

Every Sunday I walked out of church with a splitting headache. Mass was torture to me. That’s one reason I left the Church.
 
That is your position and I guess of YouTube.:rotfl:It is not the position of the Catholic Church. You are a prime example of why such conflict exist, by the way. This “My Mass is better than your Mass” attitude does nothing but cause dissension. Most Catholics get their instruction from the bishops, priests, the Vatican and not YouTube.
I thought that youtube thing was rather humorous, too. I don’t take my instruction from a website that anyone can send a video to, saying anything they want. I don’t even know who that guy on the first video is.

Youtube. 😃
 
The chances of one understanding what is being said, especially when taking age into consideration, are much less if one attends a Mass not spoken in the vernacular.
That seems to be the standard party line against having Latin in the liturgy. So why don’t we understand the Mass more now than we did back then? (Many more think it’s a meal now.) Where is the evidence that the vernacular was such a wonderful success? I don’t know about you but I don’t find “one in being with the Father” very understandable.
When I was a child I attended TLM every single Sunday and I was bored out of my mind. I had no idea what was being said.
Not even “Dominus vobiscum”?
I didn’t even understand what the hymns were saying even though they were familiar to me.
I know what you mean there. When I was passing by a place of worship I thought they were signing “Bringing in the Cheese.” 🙂 What did I know as a kid?
Mass was torture to me. That’s one reason I left the Church.
I left too but probably for reasons far different than yours.
 
Maybe I should be a bit blunt and remind those who delight in this type of hostility that this forum was closed awhile back, and it is not immune to a future sabbatical. Nothing I said warranted this attack, but if this is the way traditionalists generally think/speak/act, then it is no wonder they are not welcomed by the bishops for their own liturgies.
:tiphat: Never miss an opportunity to restate the old stereotype.

Again :cool:
 
So I think the key is not to try to answer this debate over the liturgy but as the Holy Father wants try to meet the pastoral concerns for all. The Holy Father said there is no possible harm that could be done by offering the EF so I think as Catholics the proper attitude is one of co existence. If people attend the OF and it is helping them keep the faith then by all means I don’t want to take that away from you but don’t deny me my right to my Spiritual Patrimony in the EF either. i think once we can accept a co-existence and when there is much more equality as far as availability of the EF this divide will begin to heal.
I see that you don’t post very often. Thank you for making this one of the rare exceptions. I really appreciated this post (the whole thing, not just this bit I’m quoting.)
 
That seems to be the standard party line against having Latin in the liturgy. So why don’t we understand the Mass more now than we did back then? (Many more think it’s a meal now.) Where is the evidence that the vernacular was such a wonderful success? I don’t know about you but I don’t find “one in being with the Father” very understandable.
I’m too ill now to do any research. That’s why I worded my post the way I did, without links (I usually provide links). It’s my own experience and what people have told me that I have based this on. It’s certainly not scientific research and as a scientist I’ll be the first to state that. It’s my opinion, nothing more. I apologize if I didn’t make that clear.

I understand the Mass much more now than I did when it was in Latin. Unfortunately there are a myriad of confounding factors that I can’t tease out. Has my knowledge of the Mass improved because it’s in English or because I’m older or because I once left the Church and came back or because I am actually participating in it instead of just attending? I’m sure all these factors play a part.

I’m sure studies have been done but I can’t search for them right now.
Not even “Dominus vobiscum”?
Nope. When I was a teenager I knew what that meant. I didn’t know the Kyrie Eleison was Greek. Of course when I was very young I thought the Holy Spirit was a parakeet and Mary was full of grapes, so I didn’t have the English down very well either (oh, I hope I don’t get banned for that because I love the Holy Spirit and Mary so, so much, but it’s true).
I know what you mean there. When I was passing by a place of worship I thought they were signing “Bringing in the Cheese.” 🙂 What did I know as a kid?
I’ll get banned; you’ll just get an infraction. 😃 I thought they were bringing in sheep!!
I left too but probably for reasons far different than yours.
I want to say that I have nothing against TLM. If we had one in my parish I would probably attend. I take that back. I would attend. I’m trying to learn Latin; not just because of the Mass but because it’s a beautiful language, many of its words form the basis for English and Spanish words, and because so many people consider it a dead language.

What bothers me is the tension and hostility and now I’ve been part of it for blowing up at a banned member who can’t even respond. I guess I just don’t understand the importance of things like gold chalices and Communion rails. They are disciplines and can be changed. And as a woman I admit I would feel as if I were being treated in an inferior way if I were told I couldn’t go up beyond the Communion rail except to clean. Having to wear a chapel veil for so much of my life and having been smacked so hard across the face because I lost mine is one of the reasons I left the Church. The emphasis wasn’t on Communion but covering the top of my hair (while the rest flowed down my back), listening to words I didn’t understand, cowering in the Confessional while I lied to the priest about sins I never committed and then wondering if the lies were absolved in this Confession or if I had to come back (and the priest knew who I was anyway).

I apologize - I’m going off topic. But I do have a question. Do traditionalists want a closed Confessional or do they accept an open, face-to-face Confession? I haven’t seen this addressed.
 
Maybe that’s the past. The Pope is now encouraging the use of the internet to seek the Truth. In fact he put out a YouTube video to say it. 🙂
FYI - I also do not “twitter” (whatever that is) and have decided I am old to text. Okay, some people do get their information from YouTube. I stand corrected. I do agree with the value of the internet though, if you are talking about accessing the Vatican website.
 
I just read in a post about the Sign of the Cross and using two fingers instead of three. Is there a rule about this? I tried to make the Sign of the Cross and ended up using two fingers for the Father and three for the Son and the Holy Spirit.

I am so confused! :confused::confused:😦
 
:tiphat: Never miss an opportunity to restate the old stereotype.

Again :cool:
I think that quote is actually very good because while reading it I thought of something. The “attack” was from one person, correct? So why blame all traditionalists? Wouldn’t that be the same as blaming all Baptists for what one Baptist did or blaming all women for what one woman did?

Or blaming all Catholics for what one Catholic did?

Is it a good idea to extrapolate group behavior from the actions of one person? I don’t think so and I think this is one of the reasons there is so much tension when this subject is brought up. Aren’t we supposed to be part of the Communion of Saints? Aren’t we supposed to all be brothers and sisters in Christ?

Aren’t we supposed to love each other? We sure don’t act like it sometimes, me included. I don’t like being this way. 😦
 
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