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Sarabande
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60,000 annulments a year? I’m not saying you are wrong on this as I don’t know myself, but how did you get that info? If that is true, was a sad state we’re in.My guess is that the reader is correct and that this is one more example of the fact that Vatican II was a disaster for the Catholic Church in many ways. Take for another example, the support of family life since Vatican II. In the USA in 1930, there were about 9 marriage annulments total. But today it is running up to 60,000 and more in recent years. When you go from 9 marriage anulments per year in the USA to more than 60,000 marriage annulments per year in the USA, it is difficult to see how the Church has been supporting family life as much as it did in 1930.
That said, in the 1930s, we were just starting to go through a horrible Depression. During desperate times, people learn to stick together and they see what is most important. And on a practical standpoint, it wouldn’t make any sense for a woman to leave her husband if things were bad. They needed to stick together to survive. I’m not saying that this was always the case.
I wasn’t alive back then and my grandmother was just a young girl who didn’t really understand that things were terrible, but I’m sure the Church was very supportive of their flock. They had a lot more priests and religious back then who could tend to them. Today, we have much less and we are not suffering as much financially, although we are spiritually. I think the clergy sees that, but it is much harder for them, especially since more and more people don’t have “blind faith” or don’t have the foundation to make them truly understand what it means to be a Catholic/Christian.
we can’t just blame it all on Vatican II. As everyone on here pointed out, there were many factors. Perhaps the timing of the implementation of Vatican II was wrong. If it was done in the 50s or during a time of great distress like during the Depression or the 1940s and not in the turbulent 60s, the outcome may have been different and that more people would have been more true to it. (I’m one of the after products of VII, so I do know that a lot of people took advantage of the time period to do what they wanted to teach. Or they were just misguided.)
In a way, things that they did in the 70s and 80s were basically like experiments and everyone, especially the children of these generations were heavily affected. I mean, so many of my contemporaries no longer consider themselves Catholic or just “luke-warm” Catholics. So I agree with Al Masetti and other people on this forum that the basis was taken away. It’s not necessarily the fault of VII, but more so the people who implemented it. But again, there are many factors which contributed to the decline.