You are quite right, and I knew this, but didn’t think of it, in the present discussion. If I had to guess, I would say that “unique human life” — ensouled or not — comes into being when the DNA is fully formed. Excellent point.I’m just going to throw this in here and I’m making no claims regarding it…you do know that even conception is a process? Once the sperm has entered the egg, there are several hours while the haploid DNA from each unwinds and then recombined to form the new unique DNA. So, there isn’t some specific point in conception…it takes hours for what we would consider a new life.
It takes a lot to offend me, and what you said didn’t get anywhere near that point. I did not have a typical catechesis. I began at age 14 with the old Knights of Columbus correspondence course, which was totally orthodox and still used pre-Vatican II books. It was amazing. To be a short ten-lesson course (pamphlets of about 30 pages each), it was perfect in every way. I hope they have maintained these standards. Then I decided to join the Church and I received the standard individualized instructions one-on-one from a priest who was basically orthodox, but dissented from Humanae vitae. The textbook was The New Parish Catechism (Fr. William Martin) and Of Sacraments and Sacrifice (Fr. Clifford Howell), both perfectly orthodox. I questioned his dissent from HV — it didn’t make sense. How can you pick out one doctrine and say “I don’t believe that”? I told him I’d take his word for it, but I still wasn’t convinced. Again, aside from HV, my catechesis was entirely orthodox. Ours was a pretty conservative diocese (on the fringes of the Midwestern US).When I say “catechesis” I am referring to religious instruction provided in the Catholic schools and CCD programs. As you yourself note in your post, it “was faulty”. I don’t know your age, but when you said 40+, I assumed you were probably in school or CCD during those "horrible 1970s and 1980s receiving some of that faulty instruction. I was not referring to any of your private studying and research.
And I do feel sorry for those who weren’t catechized properly; they deserved more.
I also have done tons of reading and studying on my own, read the Bible, read the Catechism, read papal encyclicals and books, some ECF’s, … - but I don’t consider that catechesis. I think catechesis is receiving instruction from someone as opposed to self study. But perhaps it has a broader meaning.
Sorry you were offended; that certainly was not my intent.