Democrats and sex-selective abortion

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Relativism provides a loophole.

If some cultures decide that women are worthless, then who are we to say that these cultures are wrong? Everything is relative right? No such thing as absolute right or wrong.
 
I’m registered Dem, it doesn’t mean I’m pro-choice or necessarily vote Dem.
I disapprove of abortion regardless of gender.

Also, what’s this “proud Dem” business? I don’t find either party anything to take pride in these days.
I stay Dem because it’s the family tradition. I’m not proud of it or ashamed of it. It’s just how it is.

Muting now, nothing more to discuss here.
 
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Sure, I’ll bite!

As the article mentions several times, Hillary Clinton is against selective abortion based on sex.

From the article:
"Dr. Sunita Puri, one of the authors of a well-known study on sex selection in the U.S., noted that “more than 30 countries, including Canada and the United Kingdom, have already banned sex selection on the grounds that it reinforces gender inequality and sets a precedent for legitimizing eventual selection of traits ranging from eye color to intelligence.”

First off, I’ll stick to my often-stated opinion that although personally I would find abortion, esp. this sort of abortion, reprehensible and repulsive, I recognize the freedom of conscience of other people esp. in cultures where there is obviously a difference of opinion (India, China).

Having said that, how would making it illegal help? Do you have a questionnaire asking “Are you having this abortion because you don’t want a female baby?” And if you answer yes, you are sent home? What is stopping any woman from saying “No.”? I suppose it would show a societal rejection of abortion to choose the sex of a baby, but that’s about it. No practical effect.
 
That’s it - a law against it would be tricky to enforce.
And I’ll go further–selection by sex trivializes life. And the article is right, if you can start choosing the sex, then it’s not a stretch to start selecting eye color, height, and so on. Designer babies! Maybe it will come to that, but to me in 2020 it seems like bad science fiction.
 
Most pro choicers will find it to be sexist, for obvious reasons, but they don’t see it as murder so there’s no motivation to outlaw it and instead they shame the parents who would rather have a son/daughter. The more militant ones would probably encourage that over having a daughter that the parents may potentially screw up because Jane wasn’t a John.

I don’t think this issue is a “gotcha” for the dems at all, to be quite honest.
 
Most pro choicers will find it to be sexist, for obvious reasons, but they don’t see it as murder so there’s no motivation to outlaw it and instead they shame the parents who would rather have a son/daughter. The more militant ones would probably encourage that over having a daughter that the parents may potentially screw up because Jane wasn’t a John.

I don’t think this issue is a “gotcha” for the dems at all, to be quite honest.
Oh, but I think it most certainly is a “gotcha”.

It would be interesting to scratch the surface, and ask them whether it makes a difference if parents are trying to keep a girl from being born, or a boy from being born. After all, women are part of the intersectionality mix, as a “historically oppressed group”… right?
 
It would be interesting to scratch the surface, and ask them whether it makes a difference if parents are trying to keep a girl from being born, or a boy from being born. After all, women are part of the intersectionality mix, as a “historically oppressed group”… right?
Them being against it would force them to acknowledge that there is actually a person being murdered.
 
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It would be interesting to scratch the surface, and ask them whether it makes a difference if parents are trying to keep a girl from being born, or a boy from being born. After all, women are part of the intersectionality mix, as a “historically oppressed group”… right?
Them being against it would force them to acknowledge that there is actually a person being murdered.
Or it could force them to admit that female lives matter more to them than male lives.

The most detested creature in this culture (aside from possibly a child molester) is a white, conservative, heterosexual Christian male. I am acutely aware of this, as I happen to be one of these white (I prefer European American), conservative (on many issues), heterosexual Christian males.
 
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It would be interesting to scratch the surface, and ask them whether it makes a difference if parents are trying to keep a girl from being born, or a boy from being born. After all, women are part of the intersectionality mix, as a “historically oppressed group”… right?
This would then be about whether sexism against girls and boys are equally bad, not about abortion, though. Which would be out of topic.

I thought it was a gotcha as a teen until I actually asked questions like this.
Or it could force them to admit that female lives matter more to them than male lives.
And this was often never the case. They didn’t view the fetus as a life. To them it is about the mentality of preferring a son over a daughter, or a daughter over a son and how that mindset is flawed.

And like I said, the more extreme ones would encourage sex selective abortion for parents who would be against having a specific sex as they feel that would prevent child abuse later on.

This is probably a gotcha to people who are tragically inconsistent/pro choice only to be PC (e.g. "I’m personally pro life, but I’m for legal abortion).
The most detested creature in this culture (aside from possibly a child molester) is a white, conservative, heterosexual Christian male
The self victimisation on both ends is annoying, tbh, as well as not relevant here with all due respect.
 
The most detested creature in this culture (aside from possibly a child molester) is a white, conservative, heterosexual Christian male
The self victimisation on both ends is annoying, tbh, as well as not relevant here with all due respect.
I’m nobody’s victim. I am just stating a well-known fact in today’s society. Put another way, who else is it acceptable to hate? Imagine the horror that would be elicited by T-shirts or bumper stickers that said “The Future Is Male”, “Boys Rule”, “The Best Man For The Job Is a Man”, “Girls Lie”, and so on. And while, yes, taking the thread in this direction threatens to veer off-topic, and “off-topic” is discouraged in these forums, I think it most certainly is relevant to thrust it in the Democrats’ face, as to whether it is “worse” to selectively abort one sex rather than the other. Maybe they’d say it’s equally justified — but I think it would be interesting to see their reaction, and to listen to them try to justify sex selection.
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It would be interesting to scratch the surface, and ask them whether it makes a difference if parents are trying to keep a girl from being born, or a boy from being born. After all, women are part of the intersectionality mix, as a “historically oppressed group”… right?
This would then be about whether sexism against girls and boys are equally bad, not about abortion, though. Which would be out of topic.
See above.
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Or it could force them to admit that female lives matter more to them than male lives.
And this was often never the case. They didn’t view the fetus as a life. To them it is about the mentality of preferring a son over a daughter, or a daughter over a son and how that mindset is flawed.
But even by their reasoning, in nine months or less, it will be a life, and if they prefer having a boy to having a girl, it gives them something to explain.

Sex selection, by its very nature, is sexist — in either direction. Or is it only sexist if you are selecting to favor having a boy? Why?

If there were a way to predict gay orientation in the womb, and to abort selectively based upon that factor, now that’s one explanation I would like to hear as well. I would dearly love to hear Joe Biden or Kamala Harris be asked in a “debate” (they’re not “debates”, a “debate” is a scholarly exercise in which a proposition is presented, one debater argues in the affirmative, while the other debater argues in the negative) something along the lines of “you support freedom of choice on abortion — if it were possible to perform a test in the womb to see whether the fetus is gay or not, and if the fetus were indeed gay, would you support freedom of choice to abort that gay fetus?”.
 
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It would make an interesting question for someone with little conviction, sure, but it’s not a gotcha. Or at least in the way you might be implying (that the pro-life position is the right one).

Ultimately it’s closer to the gay baker scenario. Can a woman be legally allowed to discriminate regarding pregnancy? If not, it threatens her right to autonomy. Then argue from there. Although, practically speaking you can’t really ban sex selection abortion because a woman can very easily say she changed her mind and isn’t ready for any baby, even if it’s a lie. So you won’t see Democrats pushing for it. If anything, they’ll shun sex selective mindsets,not outlaw it.

This already happens to the disabled and women aborting disabled fetuses, and we don’t see this drama even though everyone is against ableism.

You won’t catch a democrat rethinking their pro choice stance from this scenario. Unless, like I said, they were already “personally pro life”.
Sex selection, by its very nature, is sexist — in either direction. Or is it only sexist if you are selecting to favor having a boy? Why?
Again, your question would be out of point. When talking to someone, figure out what you’re trying to make them realise. Are you trying to explain the inconsistency of the pro choice belief, or the double standards of sexism? You can’t do both effectively, because you will get a very messy conversation. Which this is already lol.

You bring this up and all you get in return is someone explaining why sexism against girls is more severe and how sex selection perpetuates such beliefs. They wouldn’t even have to touch on the morality or legality of abortion. They will just have to explain the double standards of sexism and you are forced to address such points before bringing it back to abortion. Waste of time imo, because if talking about sexism is what you’re after, you might as well have the conversation to be about that only in the first place.
you support freedom of choice on abortion — if it were possible to perform a test in the womb to see whether the fetus is gay or not, and if the fetus were indeed gay, would you support freedom of choice to abort that gay fetus?”.
Are we assuming that this gay litmus test is legal in the first place? With no issue whatsoever?

I can picture both camps (pro lifers and choicers) being against such testing in the first place, especially since it won’t ever be necessary to find out if your fetus would be gay at that point of time. Such a test would be a whole other topic as Biden or Harris can easily say that they support the freedom to choose, but they’re against such testing as the tests promote a culture of homophobia.

It’ll be better if you stick to testing that already exists which would be sex or disability.
 
Biden, Pelosi, and Cuomo do not care for the unborn. As far as I can tell the Democrats see pre-born children as trash and can be swept aside in a moments notice.
 
There’s very little practical way of regulating sex-selective abortions once abortion itself is legal. People can easily enough conceal their motivations and there’s not much that can be done about it. That means disproportionate abortions of females in places like China and India when possible.

I also think it’s highly probable that selective abortions of males will become more common by the 22nd/23rd century, or perhaps in this century.

Candidates like Biden have already said that they disagree with abortion personally but they think it should be a right, so I don’t they’re going to have much conviction in this area either.
 
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It would make an interesting question for someone with little conviction, sure, but it’s not a gotcha. Or at least in the way you might be implying (that the pro-life position is the right one)…

This already happens to the disabled and women aborting disabled fetuses, and we don’t see this drama even though everyone is against ableism.

You won’t catch a democrat rethinking their pro choice stance from this scenario. Unless, like I said, they were already “personally pro life”.
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Sex selection, by its very nature, is sexist — in either direction. Or is it only sexist if you are selecting to favor having a boy? Why?
Again, your question would be out of point. When talking to someone, figure out what you’re trying to make them realise. Are you trying to explain the inconsistency of the pro choice belief, or the double standards of sexism? You can’t do both effectively, because you will get a very messy conversation. Which this is already lol… You bring this up and all you get in return is someone explaining why sexism against girls is more severe and how sex selection perpetuates such beliefs. They wouldn’t even have to touch on the morality or legality of abortion. They will just have to explain the double standards of sexism and you are forced to address such points before bringing it back to abortion. Waste of time imo, because if talking about sexism is what you’re after, you might as well have the conversation to be about that only in the first place.
you support freedom of choice on abortion — if it were possible to perform a test in the womb to see whether the fetus is gay or not, and if the fetus were indeed gay, would you support freedom of choice to abort that gay fetus?”.
Are we assuming that this gay litmus test is legal in the first place? With no issue whatsoever?

I can picture both camps (pro lifers and choicers) being against such testing in the first place, especially since it won’t ever be necessary to find out if your fetus would be gay at that point of time. Such a test would be a whole other topic as Biden or Harris can easily say that they support the freedom to choose, but they’re against such testing as the tests promote a culture of homophobia.

It’ll be better if you stick to testing that already exists which would be sex or disability.
You make some good points and I thank you for that, but I think there is something to be said for getting the other side shook up, throw some “hash” at them that forces them to dismantle other aspects of their preciously-held worldview, get them rattled, and make them lose their equilibrium. This would be in the spirit of Saul Alinsky, to be sure, but not all of the tricks in his tool kit are immoral in and of themselves. Not to be too melodramatic, but we are at war against the forces of evil, we are not in a college Forensics 101 class, and psychological warfare and demoralization of the enemy are legitimate tactics that have been used in wars from the beginning of time.
 
If nothing else, you may win over people who are “on the fence” and make their decisions based on emotion and not reason. In trying to attract that kind of “swing voter” (or any voter for that matter), I really don’t care how I get their vote, just as long as I get it. You certainly won’t drive people away, saying "those pro-lifers are nasty people, they don’t use good reasoning, they bring in aspects of the argument that aren’t relevant, and I base my decisions on sound reasoning and argumentation, not ‘how it makes me feel’ ". Again, what happens in that polling booth, that’s the bottom line. Any politician knows that the key to being a successful politician is getting elected in the first place.
 
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