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stpurl
Guest
Why are you insisting on separating and ranking Catholic practices? I don’t believe that is at all helpful. Nor do I think that there’s a ‘one-size-fits-all’ practice.
You speak of ‘loving one’s neighbor’. Well and good. Now suppose you’re an older person with limited resources and limited contact with ‘one’s neighbor’ in the physical sense.
Yet since you have time, you can pray (those outmoded rosaries) and you can, from your limited resources, use the money you would have spent on meat to abstain on Fridays (and sometimes other days) to donate to your local parish’s St. Vincent De Paul society. You can knit prayer shawls which volunteers pick up and deliver.
Such a person might not appear to be doing the ‘hard work’ or the ‘face-to-face’ work, but that prayer, abstinence, and sacrifice of time in creating for the poor is just as valuable.
But how often do we judge when we hear a person say something like, “I do my best to pray, that’s how I serve God” (in the situation above, and other similar ones) and start snarling at them, “Why don’t you get out and DO something instead of taking the easy lazy way of ‘just’ praying?”
Too often, I fear, and this kind of ranking and judging and insistence of ‘one thing’ being ‘better’ is just. . .not helpful.
You speak of ‘loving one’s neighbor’. Well and good. Now suppose you’re an older person with limited resources and limited contact with ‘one’s neighbor’ in the physical sense.
Yet since you have time, you can pray (those outmoded rosaries) and you can, from your limited resources, use the money you would have spent on meat to abstain on Fridays (and sometimes other days) to donate to your local parish’s St. Vincent De Paul society. You can knit prayer shawls which volunteers pick up and deliver.
Such a person might not appear to be doing the ‘hard work’ or the ‘face-to-face’ work, but that prayer, abstinence, and sacrifice of time in creating for the poor is just as valuable.
But how often do we judge when we hear a person say something like, “I do my best to pray, that’s how I serve God” (in the situation above, and other similar ones) and start snarling at them, “Why don’t you get out and DO something instead of taking the easy lazy way of ‘just’ praying?”
Too often, I fear, and this kind of ranking and judging and insistence of ‘one thing’ being ‘better’ is just. . .not helpful.