Grace & Peace!
While not a theological explanation as such, I find the find best response is in the words of Mephistopheles from Marlowe’s brilliant play, Dr. Faustus. At this point in the play, Faustus has just recently conjured Mephistopheles and is asking him some questions…:
FAUSTUS. …] Tell me what is that Lucifer thy lord?
MEPHIST. Arch-regent and commander of all spirits.
FAUSTUS. Was not that Lucifer an angel once?
MEPHIST. Yes, Faustus, and most dearly lov’d of God.
FAUSTUS. How comes it, then, that he is prince of devils?
MEPHIST. O, by aspiring pride and insolence;
For which God threw him from the face of heaven.
FAUSTUS. And what are you that live with Lucifer?
MEPHIST. Unhappy spirits that fell with Lucifer,
Conspir’d against our God with Lucifer,
And are for ever damn’d with Lucifer.
FAUSTUS. Where are you damn’d?
MEPHIST. In hell.
FAUSTUS. How comes it, then, that thou art out of hell?
MEPHIST. Why, this is hell, nor am I out of it:
Think’st thou that I, that saw the face of God,
And tasted the eternal joys of heaven,
Am not tormented with ten thousand hells,
In being depriv’d of everlasting bliss?
I hope this helps! It’s a response that is, actually, consonant with Christian teaching. Hell is not so much a fixed place in space and/or time–it is a way and a state of being.
Under the Mercy,
Mark
All is Grace and Mercy! Deo Gratias!