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The Does Ted Kennedy Take Communion thread really bothered me on a lot of levels. It bothers me that there are people out there who seem to make it there business to know about other people, and it got me a bit paranoid.
My wife comes from a non-Catholic, non-church attending family. When I visit her relatives on the weekend, I still make good on my obligation to attend Mass, but I often go by myself. Several times a year, I’m the stranger in the middle pew. Would anyone, priest, deacon, bishop, EMHC ever feel it within their responsibilities to deny me the Sacrament? Perhaps on the grounds that because they don’t recognize me as a member of the parish that I’m not actually Catholic or not properly disposed to receive?
What if I wrong a fellow parishioner on Monday, go to Confession on Saturday, attend Mass in a state of Grace on Sunday and that parishoner is the EMHC giving Communion in my line. Can they attempt to deny me the Sacrament on the grounds that I sinner against them Monday?
In both of these cases, I could see a “busy-body” EMHC who thinks they know best (and don’t, actually), decide that it’s their responsibility to deny me Communion for a reason that doesn’t actually exist.
We all know that I cannot be denied Communion for any of these reasons. Just because I cannot be denied it, however, doesn’t mean that someone won’t try, thinking that “they know best.”
This is what I fear when I see these threads out there. Because, when it gets right down to it, they don’t know best, and one of these times they’re going to create a bad situation. I know that I certainly wouldn’t take kindly to being denied Communion by an EMHC because they thought I wasn’t properly disposed.
I’m not intending this to be an attempt at reopening that Ted Kennedy thread. Quite honestly, if I were an EMHC and he (or any other Catholic politician with a pro-abortion voting record) attended my church, I would only deny him Communion on the direct order of the parish priest or diocesan bishop.
My wife comes from a non-Catholic, non-church attending family. When I visit her relatives on the weekend, I still make good on my obligation to attend Mass, but I often go by myself. Several times a year, I’m the stranger in the middle pew. Would anyone, priest, deacon, bishop, EMHC ever feel it within their responsibilities to deny me the Sacrament? Perhaps on the grounds that because they don’t recognize me as a member of the parish that I’m not actually Catholic or not properly disposed to receive?
What if I wrong a fellow parishioner on Monday, go to Confession on Saturday, attend Mass in a state of Grace on Sunday and that parishoner is the EMHC giving Communion in my line. Can they attempt to deny me the Sacrament on the grounds that I sinner against them Monday?
In both of these cases, I could see a “busy-body” EMHC who thinks they know best (and don’t, actually), decide that it’s their responsibility to deny me Communion for a reason that doesn’t actually exist.
We all know that I cannot be denied Communion for any of these reasons. Just because I cannot be denied it, however, doesn’t mean that someone won’t try, thinking that “they know best.”
This is what I fear when I see these threads out there. Because, when it gets right down to it, they don’t know best, and one of these times they’re going to create a bad situation. I know that I certainly wouldn’t take kindly to being denied Communion by an EMHC because they thought I wasn’t properly disposed.
I’m not intending this to be an attempt at reopening that Ted Kennedy thread. Quite honestly, if I were an EMHC and he (or any other Catholic politician with a pro-abortion voting record) attended my church, I would only deny him Communion on the direct order of the parish priest or diocesan bishop.