Actually, I have had some of these LCWR congregations’ Sisters in my theology classes while working on my masters. Most were pleasant, charitable, kind. There were others who could be, for all their ‘affirmation’ of women, quite hostile towards Sisters in habit. One group in particular formed a clique, very anti-male, and very angry.
Yes, I am very well informed about LCWR, I have read their material, and I must respectfully disagree with you. Much of it seems quite schismatic. Without mentioning any names, I can state that there are a few presidents of LCWR who have made very shocking statements. I was particularly appalled when one of their presidents defended the Sisters who signed the New York times (pro abortion) ad in 1984 as a free speech issue.
The habit is a complex issue. These were the ordinary garb of the poor at a given time, in many cases. But, the various Third Order Regular Dominican, Franciscan, Carmelite, Augustinian congregations, which adopted the garb of the Second Order women, cannot lay claim to that theory.
Many, not a few, groups were founded wearing a uniform habit, whether based on widows’ weeds or not. It was understood that the members of the community all dressed alike, uniformly. Whether their clothing was all that removed from the average person’s clothing is another question. Some congregations left no doubt that they were consecrated people, for example the Sisters of Mercy. Very few congregations started out wearing no habit whatsoever. Mary Ward’s English Ladies, the pre French Revolution Sisters of St. Joseph, the Daughters of the Heart of Mary, the Missionaries of the Most Blessed Trinity, the Polish Sister Servants of Mary Immaculate are the only groups that come to mind immediately. The Congregation of the Holy Faith, founded by Margaret Aylward, did not wear a habit, but did have a uniform (which, I believe, the foundress did not wear).
Regarding the idea of teaching in middle or upper class schools, quite a few foundresses did open schools for these groups, either to finance other ventures, or because that was their original mandate. For example, Dr. Murray asked Mother Teresa Ball to begin the Irish Loreto Sisters to educate the daughters of the growing Catholic middle class of the time. Catherine McAuley also made foundations which catered to the middle or upper classes.
The issue of the habit will not go away. I do not believe your characterizations of religious are entirely accurate, or fair. For, if religious life as a distinct form of consecrated life is to exist, there are certain characteristics, or structures, if you will, that must support it.
Not all habitless religious are paragons of virtue, nor are all habited religious desperately clinging to the past. I know, I have a very dynamic former student who has just begun her novitiate in a recently founded Canadian group.
By the way, it is customary in respectful dialogue to refer to people by their correct titles, as in Archbishop Chaput.