Depressed

[gran]

I need to ask for forgiveness. I have lost the most important person in my life, my girlfriend. We have done some really bad things to each other. I have broken up with her several times. Our last time I realized what I was really losing even though she had did some bad things to me. I tried to get her back and she told me she needed time however I know that she is now talking to other guys. So that’s why she is asking for time. I can’t sit back and watch this happen so I told her I can’t do it.
I need to ask for forgiveness for me and her, I need the strength to function in life again. I have been depressed for about two months and it is really wearing on me.
PLESE PLEASE help me with a prayer. I’m catholic but need some guidance

 

[Cagrl]

Praying for you, gran. I am sorry you are feeling so depressed. May God embrace you in his loving arms and comfort you.

 

[KingAlfred]

I need to ask for forgiveness. I have lost the most important person in my life, my girlfriend. We have done some really bad things to each other. I have broken up with her several times. Our last time I realized what I was really losing even though she had did some bad things to me. I tried to get her back and she told me she needed time however I know that she is now talking to other guys. So that’s why she is asking for time. I can’t sit back and watch this happen so I told her I can’t do it.
I need to ask for forgiveness for me and her, I need the strength to function in life again. I have been depressed for about two months and it is really wearing on me.
PLESE PLEASE help me with a prayer. I’m catholic but need some guidance

Join some sort of group that meets regularly. Build other relationships (non-romantic) to fill the void for now. I know how you feel. Hang in there.

 

[vee8]

Go to confession! Seek forgiveness from Jesus not us. Get rid of your sins first then the depression will go. Do a examination of conscience first of course.

Remember the first and most important commandment too in your examination of conscience. I am the Lord your God you shall have no other gods before me. If this girl was the most important person in your life as you wrote

I have lost the most important person in my life, my girlfriend.

then you have it all wrong.
The examination asks you Do I love God above all else?
Do I put anything or anyone ahead of Him: money, power, sex, a particular person? Do I blame God when I am dissatisfied?
In what manner have I performed my daily prayers, Holy Mass, other pious practices such as the Rosary, spiritual reading, Eucharistic adoration?

I know from experience what it is like to live with and without putting God first, and life is much easier with God first so I want to encourage you to do the same. Go to confession first.

 

[Trishie]

I will pray for you in my weekend Masses.
I know it’s very painful when you lose someone you love. The grief comes in waves. But she has free will. I pray that God will help you to grow from any mistakes, and how to become truly peaceful and wholesome in spirit.
Warm regards, Trsihie

 

[Harmony1988]

I have prayed for you, I will remember you in my prayers tonight.

 

[marieLee]

I need to ask for forgiveness. I have lost the most important person in my life, my girlfriend. We have done some really bad things to each other. I have broken up with her several times. Our last time I realized what I was really losing even though she had did some bad things to me. I tried to get her back and she told me she needed time however I know that she is now talking to other guys. So that’s why she is asking for time. I can’t sit back and watch this happen so I told her I can’t do it.
I need to ask for forgiveness for me and her, I need the strength to function in life again. I have been depressed for about two months and it is really wearing on me.
PLESE PLEASE help me with a prayer. I’m catholic but need some guidance

Hi, When I am down and out, I always tell my troubles to the Holy Mother and somehow, things always turn out right. Lots of people in my parish are doing that, youths, adults, seniors… works each time.

MarieLee
marieleespiritual.blogspot.com

 

[dconklin]

I will keep you in my prayers too as I have been down that road myself. Do remember that God has chosen one for us already. No matter how hard we try, our selections may not be correct. I too dated a girl for years. We got along very well - most of the time. She even joined the Church. In the end, it did not work out. About 18 months later I met the woman who eventually became my wife - very randomly.

Concentrate your energy on yourself and on God’s will. Once you put everything into God’s hands, things will turn around. Let go and let God!

 

[Harmony1988]

I didn’t want to really add to ‘advice’ because I can understand you at this point understandably want to get back together with her, you want to show her you are sorry, you have a strong connection with her, no doubt.

It is a cross my friend, but the thing is, this kind of relationship cross will not last. I pray that gives hope.