Exactly.
Love and the fruits of the Spirit are more important. But Saint Paul says nowhere to ‘not seek the higher gifts.’
But Saint paul did say in scripture: ‘Seek the higher gifts.’
Then he adds: ‘The greatest of these is love. For if I prophesy, or speak in tongues, or work miracles by faith, but have not love, then I am but a sound.’
He says nowhere: do not seek the higher gifts.
He says: ‘Seek the higher gifts.’
(As is also stated by the Vatican / Pope/ Vatican II, its Vatican Doctrinal Commission into the Catholic Charismatic renewal, -see the links I posted from the Vatican’s ICCR website)
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1YuHSXg3RxbDj6MuMuCrj5xzL-8MUNPof/view
And Saint Paul then adds: the most important gift is LOVE
Jesus Himself in scripture says it is possible to have these higher gifts, but through lack of love, to end up in Hell, ‘There will be those who in the end cry out Lord Lord, did we not heal the sick in Your Name, cast out demons in Your Name, etc… but the Lord will reply; ‘I tell you solemnly I never knew you. For I was naked and you did not clothe Me, hungry and you did not feed Me, thirsty and you gave Me nothing to drink, in prison and you did not visit Me. Whatever you did to the least of your brethren you also did to Me.’
So indeed Charity and Love, are the most important gifts.
But Saint Paul never says don’t seek the higher gifts,
He says: ‘seek the higher gifts.’
And adds: that love and its fruits are the most important.
It is Mystic Gifts (bilocation, stigmata, visions, apparitions etc) that the saints and Vatican Doctrinal Commission into the Charismatic Renewal, state are not to be sought after:
http://www.iccrs.org/_files/files/Resources English/Questions for Doctrinal Commission/QDC26_En.pdf
Here is a link to the Vatican’s Doctrinal Commission into the Pope/ Vatican/ Vatican II approved Charismatic Renewal, with an explanation on the higher gifts of the Holy Spirit that St Paul and the New Testament refer to, and how we may pray for the higher gifts that Saint Paul mentions (tongues, prophesy, miracles, deliverance, discernment of spirits, etc) if our heart has love in the right place (love of God and love of neighbour, keeping the sacraments, a holy prayer life etc)
http://www.iccrs.org/en/doctrinal-commission-questions-and-answers/