Hopefully JRKH will correct me if I’m wrong, but I think he meant more that there’s no one size fits all when it comes to devotion. So we should all honor Mary - because she is the mother of God - just like we should all honor our own mothers. But the way we go about doing that can be different.
An analogy: For Mother’s Day, I’m usually the one who buys the funny card while everyone else buys the flowery sentimental one. I love my mom just as much as my siblings do, I just show it differently. I’m not one for big emotional moments, and my mom knows that.
I think of devotion to Mary the same way. Some people like the poetic, flowery language of DeMontfort, I don’t. But that’s ok. We’re not required to have the same tastes in devotion.