One of the big moments of clarity for me during my journey out of Mormonism and into the Catholic faith was, when I was told by my sponsor that angels are *pure spirit creations *of God, but they are not *pre-mortal *beings. In other words, yes, there was a war in heaven, but no, we were not there in a pre-human state. (or “estate”)
The idea of a pre-existence was not something I ever truly believed anyway so this information was not hard at all for me to accept. I believe John the Baptist says that Christ is greater than him because He existed before he (John) was born? I think if there had been a pre-existence, John the Baptist certainly would have known about it, so the fact that Jesus existed before John was born wouldn’t be that big of a deal? Just pondering. Anyone unfamiliar with LDS belief is probably saying whaa? about now.
Sorry for the slight hijack!