To me personally, it doesn’t matter if Mary had other children. I would not be upset if Mary and Joseph were a normal happily married couple who enjoyed the God-given physical pleasures of marriage. In a sense, that would make them a more ‘model family’ than if they remained celibate within marriage. That seems a bit bizarre, as though God were somehow elevating celibate marriages above traditional ones.
Yes,. and Mary was just yer average woman “full of grace” who is blessed among all normal blessed woman, Joseph was just your average just man, since the bible has “just men” on every page, and Jesus was just your normal child.
I presume others have cited this (I have not read all the postings), but I find Matthew 1:24-25 of particular interest. My translations reads: “Then Joseph being raised from sleep did as the angel of the Lord had bidden him, and took unto him his wife. And knew her not until she had brought forth her firstborn son, and he was called the name Jesus.”
This is beating a dead horse.
Matt. 1:25 - this verse says Joseph knew her “not until (“heos”, in Greek)” she bore a son. Some Protestants argue that this proves Joseph had relations with Mary after she bore a son. This is an erroneous reading of the text because “not until” does not mean “did not…until after.” **“Heos” references the past, never the future. **Instead, “not until” she bore a son means “not up to the point that” she bore a son. This confirms that Mary was a virgin when she bore Jesus. Here are other texts that prove “not until” means “not up to the point that”:
Matt. 28:29 - I am with you “until the end of the world.” This does not mean Jesus is not with us after the end of the world.
Luke 1:80 - John was in the desert “up to the point of his manifestation to Israel.” Not John “was in the desert until after” his manifestation.
Luke 20:43 - Jesus says, “take your seat at my hand until I have made your enemies your footstool.” Jesus is not going to require the apostles to sit at His left hand after their enemies are their footstool.
1 Tim. 4:13 - “up to the point that I come,” attend to teaching and preaching. It does not mean do nothing “until after” I come.
Gen. 8:7 - the raven flew back and forth “up to the point that” [until] the waters dried from the earth. The raven did not start flying after the waters dried.
Gen. 28:15 - the Lord won’t leave Jacob “up to the point that” he does His promise. This does not mean the Lord will leave Jacob afterward.
Deut. 34:6 - but “up to the point of today” no one knows Moses’ burial place. This does not mean that “they did not know place until today.”
2 Sam. 6:23 - Saul’s daughter Micah was childless “up to the point” [until] her death. She was not with child after her death.
Elsewhere in scripture “knew her” meant had sexual relations (e. g., Gen. 4:1). That is one of the special joys and privileges of marriage and I see less problem with that than if they never consummated their marriage. That would be viewed as wrong today, sufficient cause for a quick annulment. What sort of example is that for the rest of us?
So what you are saying is God would have his only Son be born of a bigamist, or argue that Mary was never really the Spouse of the Holy Spirit, and Mary, a perfect vessel for God’s Son, was only perfect during the divine rent-a-womb period, and was passed to a human after God was finished with her. Have you lost all sense of the sacred?
No reformer ever taught that Mary had other children. They never went that low. It is purely man made, that came with the Enlightenment era that unleashed all sorts of denials and false philosophies (communism, atheism). I would go further. It is a doctrine of demons because its final conclusion is a denial of the Divinity of Christ, or his Humanity, which is exactly what we are seeing with low church evangelical cults that got on the slippery slope of Nestoriansim.
Mary was “consummated” (for lack of a better term) with God. The penalty for infidelity in Mosaic Law was stoning to death. If Mary had disobeyed the Law, it wouldn’t make her “full of grace” now would it.
Roy, I urge you to humble stand before God, and ascend to the truth of authoritive, consistent teaching.