Hi akarmitage
If we take a look at the relevant passage according to St. Mark [14:35-36] Jesus isn’t expressing doubt in the Father at all … His prayer is an act of faith:
From the NAB
He advanced a little and fell to the ground and prayed that if it were possible the hour might pass by him;
he said, “Abba, Father, all things are possible to you. Take this cup away from me, but not what I will but what you will.”
Those words, “All things are possible to you” are the same as if Jesus had said, “You can do anything and everything.” So Jesus is expressing full confidence in the Father here.
As you began to allude to in your original post, in order for something to be a sin, it has to be a willful act. When some inner sentiments of Jesus are revealed in scripture, it is principally for our sake - not His ( Jesus had no need to speak out loud to the Father because He knew God could hear his “silent” prayers [John 11:42]).
Being both God and man, Jesus had both a divine will and a human will. What this passage in scripture is telling us , is that Jesus obeyed His divine will with His human will.
Unfortunately, true as it is, this particular explanation can prove rather difficult for a 13-year old (and many adults too) to grasp.
Where we usually miss the boat (myself included) is when we speculate on “why” Jesus said these words. Before I was anywhere near even being able to grapple with the concept of Jesus’ divine will and His human will, I had it explained to me this way.
Jesus, being God, knew all that his gentle Mother would have to suffer during His Passion and, being God, he knew exactly how it would feel to Her. Perhaps Jesus was thinking of Her at this point; perhaps He wanted us to have an inkling just how agonizing it was for Him, because saying “yes” to his Passion meant saying “yes” to all His Mother’s suffering too. This becomes all the more plausible when we learn a little, according to the Saints, of just what our Blessed Mother went through during her Son’s Passion.
To give us an idea, here are several brief excerpts from THE GLORIES OF MARY,Part II; by St. Alphonse Liguori [Palm Publishers, Helicon Press ; pgs 131,136,137]
…At length their eyes met. Jesus wiped away the clotted blood which , according to St. Bridget, prevented Him from seeing Mary. The Mother and the Son looked at each other. And their looks became as so many arrows to pierce those hearts which loved each other so tenderly.
…She (The Blessed Virgin Mary) saw her Jesus suffering on every side. She longed to help Him, but could not.
But what caused her the greatest pain was to see that by her presence and her sorrow she was increasing the suffering of her Son. “The grief which filled Mary’s heart,” says St. Bernard, “flowed like a torrent into the heart of Jesus and aggravated His martyrdom to such an extent that on the cross Jesus suffered more from compassion for His Mother than from His own torments.” Speaking in the name of Our Lady, St. Bernard says: “I stood with my eyes fixed on Him, and His on me, and He was more sorry for me than for Himself.” And then speaking of Mary beside her dying Son, he says: “She stood there dying, without being able to die.” …
If you were to ask your son if he would preserve you from something like that if he were able, I think he might discover the answer he’s looking for.
I wish you and your family a very joy-filled and blessed Easter tomorrow.
