I know she couldn’t have defied God since she is sinless but in the wedding feast at Cana when she tells Jesus that they had no more wine He said that His hour had not yet come. Yet she still tells the servants to do what He says anyways. How could she have gotten Him to do this if it wasn’t His time?
This is the perfect example of the classic Jewish Mother.
Jesus and his apostles arrived at the wedding and were having a good time. (perhaps the reason they were running out of wine)
Mary noticed this and was compelled to do something about it.
Follow along in a modern sense …
Mary: “Son, They have no more wine” (insinuating that maybe his buddies were the reason…)
Jesus: "Mom…My hour has not yet come.” (I’m not ready for this right now)
Mary: said to the servants, (Not to Jesus) “Do whatever he tells you.”
This puts Jesus on the spot…but it is typical of a perfect Jewish Mother. Today a Jewish Mom would say: “this is my son the Doctor ( or lawyer) do what he tells you to do.” Mary just left out the “Redeemer” title.
Was it His “time”? Or was it not…? We don’t know.
What I see is nothing more than a loving ADULT son still respecting his Mom and reluctantly doing what she wants.