I believe that the foundation for that view is not the Greek, but rather the Hebrew. Even though the scritpures were written in Greek, they were written mostly by Hebrew people and reflected a Hebrew culture. If a person hears Hebrew people calling a person a brother in their language he would likely write, even in Greek, using that same term. That is how I have understood the issue anyway.
But, we shouldn’t forget that if Joseph had children before marrying the Blessed Virgin then his children would have been considered brothers of Jesus. I believe this is the most ancient tradition regarding the Holy Family.
You are reading into the verse regarding “until.” In John 9.18 we read:
This is the same word, donec, that is used in the verse you reference in Matthew. And if you read further you will see clearly that the Jews also didn’t believe after they called his parents. The word until, donec, does not refer to what happens later.
By your suggestion, if by some accident St. Joseph had been incapable of “knowing” his wife then he offered nothing to the relationship. But you ignore all that St. Joseph did for our Lord and his Mother in his life. Personally, I think an understanding that implies outside of carnal relations he had no reason for marriage actually sells him very short. Very, very short.
Which Pope do you mean? The Blessed Virgin Mary is held to be Ever Virgin by all of the historic Church, both East and West. It is throughout the Fathers and the historic liturgies and hymns.
And for those who think this is just more Marian stuff, please consider that these things actually bear completely on our view of Christ. It is because of our belief that Christ is truly God Almighty that we do not consider it possible that she was anything other than Ever Virgin. This really isn’t about the Blessed Virgin Mary at all, but all about our Lord. Just look at the verse I cited at the beginning of the thread. It is about the holiness of God, not the holiness of the gate.
In regard to your first point, yes, it is true that in Hebrew the terms are interchangeable, and could be confused, Josephus clearly uses the term for siblings in extrabiblical texts when refering to Jesus siblings. So does the terms in the Gospls.
Your assertion that maybe these are Josephs kids has no scriptural support, and is necessary to support the tradional Catholic view, despite the lack of evidence.
In regard to your second point: You opine the Greek word used is ‘donec’, but this is inaccurate. The actual word used is ‘heos’ and the implication is clear, Joseph new her not until Jesus was born…hence, he did know her after that point in time.
The context of John’s verse is clearly different, and is apples to oranges.
Your third point about selling Joseph short: Not at all. The cultural idea of a consumated marriage was the marriage bed, which would have been customary especially after Jesus was born. Joseph could have been anyone, but did not need to be a husband if he were never to ‘know’ her.
Lastly, I forget which Pope it was the made the decree that she was ever virgin, but it was in the 6th century I believe. From reading from our Parish library’s books, one of the listed 10 major papal decrees was this very issue. The historical representation of why it occured was because this Pope believed we were ‘minimizing’ Mary, and felt it important to re-emphasize her; hence the decree came. Catholics are now stuck with this. Dispite better biblical scholarship over the centuries that clearly indicates different. Not to mention extrabiblical texts
My last comment about your comment is the most important in my mind. You said ‘this is all about our Lord’, and I totally agree. Catholics erroneously attribute sinlessness and ever virginity to Mary to protect Jesus. Yet, its the ‘sins of the Father’ that are passed down to generations, not the Mother. The OT makes this abundantly clear.
The Father is the Holy Spirit and is perfect, sinless and does not need any other help in conveying his nature and perfection.
The idea that Mary needs to be elevated by ‘the Immaculate Conception’, ‘her Assumption’ and her ‘ever virginity’ is unwarrented.
Scripture tells us to honor her, and well it should. She is a great matriach of faithfulness and discipleship. But to raise her with these baseless claims is just harmful to all Catholics understanding of scripture and hurts their ability to use good exegesis when they are constantly defending centuries old decrees that make no sense.
Believe me, this is not to put Catholics down. I am in great sorrow because of this, as it hurts my brothers and sisters ability really understand all that scripture holds for them.
In peace