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Liraco
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What about being the mother of Jesus? One would think that the mother of the Messiah, the mother of God as a man, would be the one person who would be deserving of a special grace of God to be kept spotless. Not by anything she did or would do, mind you, but because it’s fitting for God to have been conceived in a spotless womb. She’s the new Ark of the covenant after all. So just like the old one needed the best of materials to be worthy of Him, so too does the new one need to be pure to be worthy.She does not belong to any particular group of people that would be excluded from the “all” who have sinned.
Can you at least take that as a possibility?
You ask for “who”:
*An important historical document which supports the teaching of Mary’s perpetual virginity is the Protoevangelium of James, which was written probably less than sixty years after the conclusion of Mary’s earthly life (around A.D. 120), when memories of her life were still vivid in the minds of many.
According to the world-renowned patristics scholar, Johannes Quasten: “The principal aim of the whole writing [Protoevangelium of James] is to prove the perpetual and inviolate virginity of Mary before, in, and after the birth of Christ” (Patrology, 1:120–1).*
Well I DO want to defend Mary’s honor as your implications of her lack of virginity are not honoring her memory, and do remember that this is not just any woman but the one “full of grace” and “blessed among women”, mother of Jesus Christ. As Jesus told John, “behold your mother” we are all brothers in Christ, so she is our mother too. No one likes others talking bad about their mother, which is what you’re doing by saying she broke her vows of virginity. This isn’t some silly nonsense of “Church Authoritah” or blind obedience.I have a sneaking suspicion that you aren’t defending these ideas because you want to defend Mary’s honor.
So why is it important that she stayed a virgin? Because she was vowed to a life of perpetual virginity. The reason she was with Joseph was because it was necessary for Mary, a consecrated “virgin of the Lord,” to have a guardian or protector who would respect her vow of virginity. Which is why she said Then said Mary unto the angel, How shall this be, seeing I know not a man? Luke 1:34 (KJV).
Understand the situation: The gravity of his responsibility as the guardian of a virgin was indicated by the fact that, when she was discovered to be with child, he had to answer to the Temple authorities, who thought him guilty of defiling a virgin of the Lord. Mary was also accused of having forsaken the Lord by breaking her vow. Keeping this in mind, it is an incredible insult to the Blessed Virgin to say that she broke her vow by bearing children other than her Lord and God, who was conceived through the power of the Holy Spirit.
Now do you see what the big deal is? Now do you see why it shouldn’t be taken so lightly as to say “so what if she wasn’t a virgin”?