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Two short sentences, excuse me.Ah, yes because your one short sentence on it on page one really did the trick. Since Rome has the Primacy, I’ll stick with them.
Two short sentences, excuse me.Ah, yes because your one short sentence on it on page one really did the trick. Since Rome has the Primacy, I’ll stick with them.
I condemn both. I don’t think of the Orthodox position on recognition of divorce as a “selling point,” and wouldn’t think of bringing it up when giving a description or defense of theSo I guess the street’s one way for you then? The Orthodox can abuse divorce, but God forbid that the “Latins” do it with annulments.
the example I gave stated that the couple’s thoughts on the matter are irrelevant.If it walks like a duck and talks like a duck…
So this is when all the anullment stuff dates from? All the way back to Trent? Almost a thousand years after Quinsext?Not that it matters to you, because you wouldn’t recognize it, try reading the parts of Trent that discuss the indissolubility of marriage.
That’s all that was required.Ah, yes because your one short sentence on it on page one really did the trick.
sure does, just ask himSince Rome has the Primacy,
Can you produce an exegesis on these verses that supports the anullment scheme, that has some claim on antiquity?I’ll stick with them.
I didn’t know you had the authority of the Lord to say such things for him. In reality: so says you.So says the Lord.
I guess you’ve never heard of hindsight being 20/20…So they can read them with crystal clarity decades later.![]()
I could say the same thing about the Orthodox.Perhaps the best way to stop is not to start.
Well, in my quest to find the one, true, Church, I found it quite problematic that once upon a time, the East allowed divorce only due to adultery, and now you can get a divorce for whatever reason. THIS IS THE OFFICIAL STANCE OF THE ORTHODOX CHURCH. This in no way compares to the “liberalization” of annulments granted by the Catholic Church today. The West doesn’t even recognize the Council in Trullo as Ecumenical, so the fact that that Council deviated from the Early Church Fathers (which it did with the exception of St. Basil) is of no consequence to the West, but it most certaintly is to the East since they’re the ones who deviated. That sounds like a problem to me.I’ve always found it odd to decide a church based on what it says is bad things (the Latin church does say anullments are bad, like the Orthodox say divorce is bad, nay evil, no?)
Yes, but a territory that is nonetheless aimed at discussing issues between Catholics and non-Catholics since it falls under a Catholic forum. This forum wasn’t designed so you could be left to your own devices.Not anymore. We’re in non-Catholic territory now.![]()
Fair enough…I condemn both. I don’t think of the Orthodox position on recognition of divorce as a “selling point,” and wouldn’t think of bringing it up when giving a description or defense of the
While I don’t think it walks like a divorce or talks like a divorce, so I guess the Catholic Church is in the clear.If it walks like a divorce and talks like a divorce (and stinks like a divorce)…
No, that’s the first Dogmatic pronouncement. Read these:So this is when all the anullment stuff dates from? All the way back to Trent? Almost a thousand years after Quinsext?
How about beat it to death?
Sorry, I was trying to put the topic to sleep…![]()
You haven’t even addressed it once and I’ve only posted twice. Either way, you are Orthodox. Marriage exists after death.How about beat it to death?![]()
Fair enough…
Denial always works so well.While I don’t think it walks like a divorce or talks like a divorce, so I guess the Catholic Church is in the clear.
OKNo, that’s the first Dogmatic pronouncement. Read these:
The Council of Elvira (300 A.D.) - Canon IX
If a Christian completes penance for a sexual offense and then again commits fornication, he or she may not receive communion even when death approaches.
Women who without acceptable cause leave their husbands and join another man may not receive communion even when death approaches.
A baptized woman who leaves an adulterous husband who has been baptized, for another man, may not marry him. If she does, she may not receive communion until her former husband dies, unless she is seriously ill.
If an unbaptized woman marries another man after being deserted by her husband who was a catechumen, she may still be baptized. This is also true for female catechumens. If a Christian woman marries a man in the knowledge that he deserted his former wife without cause, she may receive communion only at the time of her death.
If a female catechumen marries a man in the knowledge that he deserted his former wife without cause, she may not be baptized for five years unless she becomes seriously ill.
Christian girls are not to marry pagans, no matter how few eligible men there are, for such marriages lead to adultery of the soul.
Heretics shall not be joined in marriage with Catholic girls unless they accept the Catholic faith. Catholic girls may not marry Jews or heretics, because they cannot find a unity when the faithful and the unfaithful are joined. Parents who allow this to happen shall not commune for five years.
If people fall from the Catholic church into heresy and then return, let them not be denied penance, since they have acknowledged their sin. Let them be given communion after ten years' penance. If children have been led into heresy, it is not their own fault, and they should be received back immediately.
Young men who have been baptized and then are involved in sexual immorality may be admitted to communion when they marry if they have fulfilled the required penance.
Anyone who has fallen into mortal ruin because of sin must seek penance from the bishop and not a presbyter. In extreme illness a presbyter may offer communion or may direct a deacon to do so.
Bishops, presbyters, deacons, and others with a position in the ministry are to abstain completely from sexual intercourse with their wives and from the procreation of children. If anyone disobeys, he shall be removed from the clerical office.
Candles are not to be burned in a cemetery during the day. This practice is related to paganism and is harmful to Christians. Those who do this are to be denied the communion of the church.
Pictures are not to be placed in churches, so that they do not become objects of worship and adoration.
If a baptized married man commits adultery repeatedly, he is to be asked as he nears death whether or not he will reform should he recover. If he so promises, he may receive communion. If he recovers and commits adultery again, he may not commune again, even as death approaches.
If any cleric or layperson eats with Jews, he or she shall be kept from communion as a way of correction.
If a baptized person has come from heresy, he must not become a cleric. One who has already been ordained is to be removed from office immediately.
A man who, after his wife's death, marries her baptized sister may not commune for five years unless illness requires that reconciliation be offered sooner.
If a cleric knows of his wife's adultery and continues to live with her, he shall not receive communion even before death in order not to let it appear that one who is to exemplify a good life has condoned sin.
A married person who commits adultery once may be reconciled after five years' penance unless illness necessitates an earlier reconciliation.
A husband who knows of his wife's adultery and who remains with her may not commune even prior to death. If he lived with his wife for a period of time after her adultery and then left her, he may not commune for ten years.
Those who sexually abuse boys may not commune even when death approaches.
If a widow has intercourse and then marries the man, she may only commune after five years' penance. If she marries another man instead, she is excluded from communion even at the time of death. If the man she marries is a Christian, she may not receive communion until completing ten years' penance, unless illness makes earlier communion advisable.
Those who are false witnesses commit a crime and are to be excluded. If their action did not bring about death, and they explain the reasons for their testimony, they shall be excluded for two years. If their explanation is not accepted by the assembled clergy, they are excluded for five years.
If a Christian confesses adultery with a Jewish or pagan woman, he is denied communion for some time. If his sin is exposed by someone else, he must complete five years' penance before receiving the Sunday communion.
A woman may not write to other lay Christians without her husband's consent. A woman may not receive letters of friendship addressed to her only and not to her husband as well.
I know of witnesses who knew of impediments of invalidity when they witnessed the wedding. So much for protection.The West believes that marriage is contractual between the parties and the bride and groom are the ministers of the sacrament. The Church requires witnesses from the Church to safeguard and protect the sacrament and the people from abuse, not for validity.
We have no such concept.The West also has a concept of validity and licitity. Something that is valid meets the most primitive requirements while something that is licit also meets the conventional governing rules.
So there are those walking around in non-sacramental marriages who don’t know it. For us this is an oxymoron.A contractual understanding of marriage means a presumably valid contract might not have met the validity requirements and if that is later discovered, the contract is null and void and neither party is bound to it. Canon law presumes validity unless determined otherwise and recognizes that there are putitive marriages which are presumed valid but in unknown actuality invalid. In this set-up, if the contract is valid and the wedding is licit and the marriage sacramental, then there can be no breaking it.
I’ll add, that the marriage doesn’t have to be consumated to be valid. Once the priest places their hands together, that’s it.The Eastern concept of marriage is more top-down. When the proper priest presides in the proper church with the proper ceremony then the wedding is valid before God and therefore eternal. The emphasis is not on the couple, but on the wedding’s validity. They must adhere to what they know and what has been passed down. It is possible to invalidate an Orthodox wedding with an annulment, like for consanguinity, but less likely. With this definity, there is no process in place to recognize an end to a marriage which was done with the correct legalities and the Orthodox continue to recognize its validity even after death.
The now part is the problem: the praxis is ancient.At the same time, the East has a concept of law and economy. Anything done short of the law is not known to fulfill the law and they hope that the Lord will take mercy and make up for any deficiencies they are unable to address themselves, but it is not guaranteed. The East can apply this concept to any law, including marital laws, if they feel the parties were unable to do better and are seeking through some sub-standard way to do the will of God. They can say that it doesn’t meet the legal criteria, but they hope that God will make up the remainder and accept what they are doing. It’s got to be better for them to be seeking to do God’s will, even if they fall short, than not seeking it at all, right? And so they now accept divorce and remarriage with economy, as well as the marriages of converts, hoping God will have mercy and supply an overabundance of faith.
Always a problem, as Christianity is not legalistic.Both East and West are legalistic and both purpose to address when sinners fall short, as we inevitably will.
I can understand the compassion of the Latin approach within its system. The contract you entered into didn’t work like it was supposed to, so they say, “well, let’s make sure the contract was valid first.” If it was, they say that there is nothing more they can do in that regard as God sees the person as married and offer social services to help the person best fulfill the will of God through the current circumstances.
As St. Basil, and the other Fathers in the Pedalion show, that option was taken. It is the abuse today that is the problem.I don’t understand the Orthodox response, though. The entire premise is that one must stay within the bounds of what is known and what has been handed on. It is my query how Orthodox priests can apply economy with good faith, hoping the Lord will accept a second or third remarriage, when the early church fathers were clear about that not being an option.
Even the hard core Athonites saw it as the bounds of the faith as passed on to them. Hence why the issue is treated as it is, the Orthodox praxis, in the Pedalion.I do not understand how they can justify teaching that it is an option or regularly performing second and third marriages knowing that it is not within the bounds of the faith that was passed on to them.
If you are claiming that they cannot for grounds (i.e. adultery), then you are clearly wrong, based on the Fathers.To perform a second marriage under these circumstances has zero certainty of finding favor with the Lord, questionably rests on mercy and grace, and goes against what has been passed down to them as being God’s will. Instead of calling people to do what God wills for them, it puts a stamp of approval on what is known to be contrary to God’s will and encourages people to strive for nothing more. It is only social convention which overrides to embarrass a person into not taking advantage of the leniency of the Church.
The Pauline and Petrine privileges dissolve, not invalidate, a marriage, as the impedient has to be removed beforehand. Otherwise it’s an ipso facto prima facie anulment.The Pauline and Petrine Privileges can be contrasted with that because the purpose is to move someone out of a non-Christian and non-sacramental (not recognized by God) marriage into a sacramental Christian marriage which will be bringing the person closer to the Lord with certainty under the Latin model.
And a succession of anullments (and it does happen) is a better model?Under the Orthodox model, a second or third marriage is known to be taking a person away from God and a determination is made to overlook this, supposedly in favor of his ultimate salvation. It isn’t going to get him back to his wife or fully living his vows, so I don’t understand how, outside of death of a spouse, this can be reasonably, much less casually, recommended or allowed.
Your above posts just prove my point that an Orthodox can only defend their untenable position on divorce by trying to point to “flaws” in the way the “Latins” do things. I never once said all the above canons are infallible canons from an Ecumenical Council. I just posted them to show where the Catholic Church gets its theology from regarding marriage and divorce, and its Dogma regarding the indissolubility of marriage. As soon as your church starts applying and practicing all its canons, maybe then we can talk. It just goes to show it’s a one way street for ya’ll. Now, can you successfully defend the Orthodox position or not, because so far you haven’t done anything but try and point out what you perceive to be flaws in the Western ideas on divorce? This is after all the non-Catholic forum right?I’m afraid space and now time constraints (school starts today, I have responsibilties towards my sons, etc, so I won’t be able to post as much for a while) I don’t think I’ll be able to go through the rest of your canons. I don’t think the result would be much different: context is the key.
What I argued was not that the Latin model is right or wrong, better or worse, but that it is consistent. It is consistent within itself to say a valid sacramental wedding may not be dissolved and to allow the dissolution of non-sacramental weddings in favor of entering into sacramental weddings. I further argued that the Orthodox model is inconsistent within itself.The Pauline and Petrine privileges dissolve, not invalidate, a marriage, as the impedient has to be removed beforehand. Otherwise it’s an ipso facto prima facie anulment.
And a succession of anullments (and it does happen) is a better model?
This will have to be all too brief. Hopefully one day I will be able to return to it, or better, it won’t be necessary.Isa,
I outlined how I believe the Orthodox model is not consistent with itself. Can we please work only within the Orthodox tradition, with no references to the Latin model, to discuss how divorce and remarriage is consistent or inconsistent with the Orthodox faith?
I don’t.I didn’t know you had the authority of the Lord to say such things for him. In reality: so says you.
I’ve also grasped the concept of a statute of limitation.I guess you’ve never heard of hindsight being 20/20…
And you can provided the “Offiicial” source for this outrageious statment?Well, in my quest to find the one, true, Church, I found it quite problematic that once upon a time, the East allowed divorce only due to adultery, and now you can get a divorce for whatever reason. THIS IS THE OFFICIAL STANCE OF THE ORTHODOX CHURCH.
Me thinks thou dost protest too much.This in no way compares to the “liberalization” of annulments granted by the Catholic Church today.
yes, another change in the West’s stance.The West doesn’t even recognize the Council in Trullo as Ecumenical,
It actually officially collects the decrees of various councils, Fathers, etc. which had been the basis of practice for centuries (your Elvira and other councils didn’t make the list).so the fact that that Council deviated from the Early Church Fathers (which it did with the exception of St. Basil)
It’s the basis of your Eastern lung’s praxis, so unless you don’t care what they do, it’s your “problem.”is of no consequence to the West, but it most certaintly is to the East since they’re the ones who deviated.
Sounds like an echo to me.That sounds like a problem to me.
And I haven’t. Now we can talk Catholic to Latin.Yes, but a territory that is nonetheless aimed at discussing issues between Catholics and non-Catholics since it falls under a Catholic forum. This forum wasn’t designed so you could be left to your own devices.
let’s postulate a controversial thesis:
Okay, this has been my thesis. I now found a flagrant paper on the Internet that actually addresses the problem of second marriages with the clergy but also makes some fascinating remarks about the evolution of the divorce-practice in the East that wholly comply with my thesis:since the regulation of marriage was enteriley placed into the hands of the Curch, that is, since the civil marriage was so to say abolished, the Church blessed adulterous(i.e. second) marriages in rite; beforehand, they were contracted outside the Church, just civilly. That is, due to the mixture of Church and State the doctrine of the church was confounded; what was merely tolerated by the bishops beforehand, namely a second marriage, then received blessing of the Church in ceremony. This, again, lead to a confusion of theology and to the forgetting of the strong stance of the fathers against remarriage, Clement Alexnadria, Origen, Basil included.
Taking for instance, St. Basil’s canon: he formulated it centuries before civil marriage was abolished (btw, it then became the betrothal service). I’m still not sure of when it was abolished, but it was after Justinanian I remember (Leo III?, Basil the Macedonian?, Leo IV?). At most, the abolition codied what had been practiced according to canon.
The later development, or, if we may more properly say so, deviation from apostolic Orthopraxy, that second, adulterous marriages were blessed in Church-rite, can in no way whatsoever be justified by the canon of Basil. What the canon of Basil really means we may grasp when comparing it to similar declarations of the early Church, such as you already diligently offered:On this one our Mardukm asks for one canon that shows that a ECF allowed remarriage when the first spouse was alive. I posted the canon of St. Basil above.
- Women who without acceptable cause leave their husbands and join another man may not receive communion even when death approaches.
- A baptized woman who leaves an adulterous husband who has been baptized, for another man, may not marry him. If she does, she may not receive communion until her former husband dies, unless she is seriously ill.
- If an unbaptized woman marries another man after being deserted by her husband who was a catechumen, she may still be baptized. This is also true for female catechumens. If a Christian woman marries a man in the knowledge that he deserted his former wife without cause, she may receive communion only at the time of her death.
Do you really think, Isa, that the Church strictly forbade such marriages in theory(cf. my original post), but then celebrated such marriages in Church, only to severely punish such marriages afterwards with the exclusion from Communion even in death?
- If a female catechumen marries a man in the knowledge that he deserted his former wife without cause, she may not be baptized for five years unless she becomes seriously ill.
I gave you a few canons without reference to the Latin way of doing things (which didn’t exist at the time). Now see my response to woodstock.Your above posts just prove my point that an Orthodox can only defend their untenable position on divorce by trying to point to “flaws” in the way the “Latins” do things.
I never once said all the above canons are infallible canons from an Ecumenical Council.
From fallible, local councils. Interesting.I just posted them to show where the Catholic Church gets its theology from regarding marriage and divorce, and its Dogma regarding the indissolubility of marriage.
with your legalism, or our praxis, that of the Fathers.As soon as your church starts applying and practicing all its canons, maybe then we can talk.
yes, with a narrow gate.It just goes to show it’s a one way street for ya’ll.
My first post:Now, can you successfully defend the Orthodox position or not, because so far you haven’t done anything but try and point out what you perceive to be flaws in the Western ideas on divorce?
The reference to the Petrince privilege carried over from a post I made in the thread on the Council of Jerusalem and blood.As for the Latins, look up Petrine privilege, to see that indeed the pope dissolves a valid marriage.
Yes, second marriage means one in Church. For one thing, the Council of Trullo adopted St. Basil’s canons on this, and I believe (I have to check this though, but I can’t right now) by this time the emperor had abolished civil marriage entirely.
A problem with the patrisitics, they (nor the Church today) makes a stark distinction between a marriage dissoled by death or divorce (on grounds, i.e. adultery). Patriarch Teoctist reiterated this when he stopped the Romanian parliament a few years ago from loosening up the divorce laws.
The Pedalion’s section on this would give you the relevant canons, including the ban on someone marrying a “lover” even when the original spouse dies.
you mean the West changed their mind.This is after all the non-Catholic forum right?Do St. Basil’s canons, which weren’t accepted by the West
The Ecumenical Councils saw them as ecumenical.as ecumenical,
No.contradict the position of the rest of the Early Church Fathers on divorce?
Do you mean the abuses, or the alleged “official” position.And is Orthodox divorce, as currently practiced, contradictory to those canons?