How am i supposed to know what beliefs of either Church are suitable to my belief system?
Define what you believe, ask God what He actually teaches being open to the guidance of the Holy Spirit, and investigate the belief of both Churches. I’m not telling you (or rather, I’m not meaning to tell you) which is the True Church, I’m telling you to not go into this investigation thinking that Orthodox teach the same thing that Roman Catholics teach.
Who and what am i to disbelief say the beliefs of many High Popes or Orthodox theologians or sucessive Bishops?
Easy - are you not a believer in Christ? Can’t you investigate the Early Church and discover what they believed? Can you compare them to the current beliefs of both Churches? Lay people just like you have in the past not only disregarded teachings of the Popes of Rome (I myself did when I left Roman Catholicism) but deposed bishops who betrayed the faith - Arius comes to mind, as does the actions of the yia-yias and nuns when the Iconoclasts came after the Holy Images.
How do i work out what is false or whos right or whos wrong?
Oooh, good question and the biggest headache for all us Christians, lol. I don’t know if I can tell you that. My best advice is to pray - *hard *- and seek answers from priests in both Churches (if your uncle is an Orthodox priest there you go, and I assume you have a Catholic priest)
In regards to which Church i or people go ,dont you think other people like our parents or relatives or girl/boy friends or Nice loving Priests we meet or who we meet and come across in our life or who may love and help us in particular times may influence our decisions and path to where someone may worship God and which Church they enter or go into,
I’m sure it can. I’m also sure God puts people in our paths to help us, and I’m equally sure that He wants us to investigate the issues weighing all arguments irrespective of how nice the people at St. Theresa of Avila Roman Catholic Parish are vs. St. Sava Serbian Orthodox parish.
Do not most people follow the Church they were born into and automatically believe and follow that Church.
Actually I honestly don’t know. My parents were raised Roman Catholic and are now Evangelical, I was raised Evangelical and am now Orthodox (after a stint in Catholicism), my sister raised Evangelical is now Lutheran, my Grandmother was raised Pentecostal and became Roman Catholic. It wouldn’t surprise me if most people change churches when they ‘grow up’.
Some Catholics ive met left for Orthodoxy and its obvious from their experience theyve ad negative experiences and relations with the Catholic Church in their past so they drifted off into Anglicanism then onto Orthodoxy,
Leaving Roman Catholicism was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do. The only thing that comes to mind harder was burying my beloved, beloved Grandmother. I loved Roman Catholicism and didn’t leave it willingly, but I owe my utmost devotion to Christ and His Truth. I held no ill feelings towards Roman Catholicism when I left, and I’ve met many others that way.
Do I have negative feelings towards Catholicism now? Idk - probably, though as much of a confession on my part as it is I’m more likely to have negative feelings towards Catholics than their faith itself. That was a development after I left your church though, and the result of speaking with Catholics, not anything that’s come from Holy Orthodoxy.
Seems the Orthodox have strained relations with Rome also and are the best of friends either after certain unfriendly acts like the Crusades or WWII.
The Orthodox churches, together forming the One Orthodox Church, each have their own attitude towards Rome, and each individual Orthodox Christian probably has some attitude as well, ranging from indifference to hatred. Most are somewhere in between. As I said, we have no ‘official view’ on your church.