I am engaged and I went to a marriage preparation class last Saturday. They handed out a flyer about different NFP methods. I live in a large city, and there are teachers available for three different methods - The Billings Ovulation Method, The Couple to Couple League Sympto-Thermal Method, and the Creighton Model FertilityCare Method. For those of you who practice NFP, as I plan to do, which method do you use? What are the differences between the methods? Is one more effective than another? Is one easier?
I want to go to an NFP class with my fiance, and I need some advice about which class to go to. Thanks for your help!
Sympto-thermal (taught by the Couple to Couple League or Taking Charge of Your Fertility) - uses basal body temperature, cervical mucus, and feel of the cervix (optional). I personally love watching for and charting the temperature sign, though some people feel that it’s more complicated.
Billings Ovulation Method - uses cervical secretions only. Users are taught four basic rules, probably one of the simplest symptom-based methods.
Creighton Model FertilityCare - uses cervical secretions only. Developed as a “standardization” of the Billings method, teaches women specific definitions and categories of mucus. Creighton trains medical consultants to diagnose fertility problems based on Creighton charts and is often thought to be one of the more “medical” methods.
Marquette - uses some combination of BBT, cervical secretions, and an electronic fertility monitor called Clearblue Fertility Monitor. The monitor is the somewhat expensive, but it’s a pretty cool gadget. It can also be helpful if you are later trying to become pregnant.
Standard Days Method - a modern calendar-based method of family planning for use only by women with reguler cycles between 26-32 days. Users rely on CycleBeads to track their cycles, instead of observing symptoms and charting. Easy, simple, 95% effective, but always requires 12 days of abstinence.
(There’s also the TwoDay Method, which isn’t really taught in the US, and LAM, which can only be used by postpartum women). I just wrote my Masters thesis on NFP and one of the things that I’ve found is that many NFP promoters feel very strongly about their own “brand” of NFP and can sometimes be disparaging of other methods. Some people like temps, others like mucus only. Some people think Marquette is too expensive, others think the cost is worth it. Take opinions for what they’re worth. All the methods can be highly effective if used correctly. Read up on the different method, take an intro class (I know Creighton and Billings have them) and/or meet with a couple of the providers and go with your gut.
And congratulations on your upcoming wedding!