I’m far from perfect and I could be way off base here. Just some food for thought. By the way, thanks for not brow-beating us Catholics! I very much appreciate your post and enjoyed reading it.
God Bless and Semper Fidelis.
I don’t think you are off base. Your position is held by many thoughtful Catholics.
- I’ll start with the Blessed Virgin. I’ll be honest, I don’t agree with people treating her as God. It’s a Trinity, not a quad… I don’t even know the word. Haha. Anyway, that may be a personal error of some, but I think it’s a misplaced generalization of most Roman Catholics. I can only speak to my own devotion to our Blessed Mother and, to some extent, the devotion of others close to me. I believe that she is our greatest and most important role model for living our lives for God. She said “YES” to God. Bottom line. **She is also our greatest intercessor. ** What earthly being understands our Lord better than HIS ark. She deserves special devotion, but not above Christ, Himself.
Being our greatest intercessor is the rub for me. For you there is a difference between a mediator and an intercessor which allows you not to be bothered by the fact that there is only one mediator:
Ga 3:19 Wherefore then serveth the law? It was added because of transgressions, till the seed should come to whom the promise was made; and it was ordained by angels in the hand of a mediator.
Ga 3:20 Now a mediator is not a mediator of one, but God is one.
1Ti 2:5 For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus;
Heb 8:6 But now hath he obtained a more excellent ministry, by how much also he is the mediator of a better covenant, which was established upon better promises.
Heb 9:15 And for this cause he is the mediator of the new testament, that by means of death, for the redemption of the transgressions that were under the first testament, they which are called might receive the promise of eternal inheritance.
Heb 12:24 And to Jesus the mediator of the new covenant, and to the blood of sprinkling, that speaketh better things than that of Abel.
'Intercessor is used only once, and it also speaks of Christ prophetically:
Isa 59:16 And he saw that there was no man, and wondered that there was no intercessor: therefore his arm brought salvation unto him; and his righteousness, it sustained him.
I don’t accept that Jesus is too busy to hear prayers, therefor his Mother hears them and passes them on. I don’t accept that she can hear prayers at all. Yes, we might ask someone next to us to pray for us, but they don’t read our minds to do it. Mary is neither omniscient nor omnipresent as the act of asking her to intercede seems to imply that she is to me.
I see intercession as standing in the gap like when Moses asks God to remove him from his grace rather than destroy the Israelites. Or like when David offers himself to stop the plague upon Israel. This role is that of Christ alone in fulfillment. We can and should intercede on behalf of others, but only because we are being made ‘like Christ’. Our substitution would never be effective but only ‘recollect-ive’, Christ effecting the real substitution.
I can even accept that she may have been a great exegete, since it is likely that the boy Jesus shared many insights into the scriptures with her, and that John was sent to her by Jesus on the cross partly to learn some of it.
I think one of the Reformers said that veneration and worship was a distinction without a difference. It is the difference that is not well verbalized in a way that is well understood by non-Catholics which is the essence of the barrier. I think the OP will find the friend having the same reservation.
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