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Lamentation
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Outward signs? :ehh: One does not need “outward” signs to have a vocation; often, inward signs are more important. I certainly have never had any “outward” signs (unless you count the Bishop, Vocations Director, and seminary staff “signing off” on everything, so to speak), and yet I will be entering the seminary this Fall. Even there I will continue to discern.Why??? what is wrong with the book? There is a lot of great information in it. The thing in that book really got me worried or rather…thinking is the signs of the call to the priesthood. and to be totally honest it was hard to accept but I never had the outward signs of a call. no one ever told me “MAN YOU NEED TO BE A PRIEST” or “you should be in the religious life” etc. I thought I wanted to be a priest and still would like very much to be a priest and I think that I would make a great priest. but through discernment and no signs from other people. i sadly have come to the conclusion that it is most likely not what Christ wants. While it sucks for me… it is for the betterment of the Church and God’s kingdom. That book is one of the best tools for a seminarian to have in his “discernment toolkit” and it hits the nail on the head in many facets. If I were a vocation director I would make all potential seminarians read it. then come back to me. It is a great book and it called me what i am… I am not called at this time. My opinion. I feel BLESSED that Jesus gave me a try and that was all I ever asked and thank you my dear loving savior for allowing me the chance. AMEN!!! Read that book it is wonderful… totally.
Frankly, I’ve actually had people tell me that I shouldn’t become a priest, for a variety of reasons (most having to do with our secular culture).
I personally didn’t like his writing style, nor some of the ideas expressed in the book. It seems to me that he describes the ideal candidate, and then (whether he means to or not) tells everybody else something to the effect of “well, you can apply, but I don’t think you’re going to get very far”. Certainly, if we are picking our priests, this “ideal candidate” might be prudent advice. In practice, however, we do not pick our priests; they are called by God. Why He chooses to call some and not others is anyone’s guess; He chooses at His pleasure. I know of priests who (sometime before entering priesthood) had same-sex attractions, did drugs, were alcoholics, had relations with others, etc.; none of which would have been able to enter if we went by this book, but now live their lives as very holy and reverent priests.
I guess what I’m trying to get at is this: if one feels that they are being called to the Catholic Priesthood, short of true mitigating factors (such as outlined in Canon Law, the Program for Priestly Formation, or being told so by the Vocations Director/Bishop/Superior General) you should explore that call regardless of what anyone says. I would go so far as to say that this is one’s obligation, if one truly seeks to do the Lord’s will. “Vocat te Oriens et tu attendis ad occidentem” (The rising sun (i.e. Christ) is calling you, and you look to the West (i.e. in the direction of fallen man))