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It sounds like he may not be the “one” for you if you’re already bored in the relationship. As some others have said, if there’s boredom now, there would likely be even more after marriage, unfortunately. When I was younger, I was very much enthralled with a guy who didn’t seem to want to do much kissing or hugging. When I finally hinted at wanting it, he complied, but he definitely didn’t seem to have the desire for it that I did. We dated exclusively for almost a year when I met another guy who seemed more my “type” whom I began to date instead. I found out many years later that the original guy I had dated for so long came out as gay several years after our relationship and has been “married” to his partner for many years now. That’s definitely not to say that your boyfriend is gay, but it just shows how compatibility can be very important in a relationship. Although you no longer live as close to each other now, there’s no need necessarily to talk to a Priest together. You can still make an appointment to speak with one by yourself and get his important advice and (name removed by moderator)ut, and the Sacrament of Reconciliation is extremely important as well as far as your temptations and solo actions are concerned. Prayers for our Blessed Mother’s intercession can also help more than you can imagine! Peace, and our Lord’s blessings to you, my dear, no matter what you decide.