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mitch2007
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Dear Forum members,
I am presently in a state of confusion and would appreciate any comments or suggestions.
I live in a very Protestant part (2% Catholic) of a majority Protestant country (7% Catholic): there are several Catholic churches in my city, but no TLM’s, except for the local SSPX chapel, which has Mass twice per month. I started going there, age 19, in 1997, and fell in love with the TLM, especially compared with the Masses I had known growing up, which were standard, English Novus Ordo facing the people, EMHC’s, later also altar girls, fare. I also came to accept the arguments of the SSPX for its legitimacy, its state of necessity arguments, etc. There I met my wife-to-be, who comes from a large, staunch SSPX family, who have been trads since she was 7 years old.
Of late, I have grown concerned about my attending the SSPX, and some of the tendencies and characteristics of many SSPX supporters, and especially my missing Mass on 2-3 Sundays per month. I felt I was in a little sect, cut off from the rest of the Church, surrounded by people who worshipped the SSPX and saw nothing wrong. (NB: I HOPE I AM NOT BEING OFFENSIVE OR BREAKING FORUM RULES) So, this is my present position:
b) Statements by Cardinal Hoyos that the SSPX is not a fully-fledged schism;
c) Pope Benedict’s declaration that the TLM was never abolished - which is what trads have been arguing for close to 40 years.
In a nutshell:
a) I believe it is okay to attend the SSPX - is this correct?
b) I have deep problems with the mentality of a lot of trads, and the SSPX - more detail will be given if required - and do not want to be in a sect, but I feel I have no option.
Oh yes - it is POSSIBLE - just POSSIBLE that a TLM will become available in a local parish eventually (long story there) - that will be wonderful - but I am not holding my breath, as there isn’t the “culture” of asking for the TLM, interest in it, or a definite orthodox/liberal divide in Catholicism here, as there is in the US. We’ve never had Indult Masses, or even Latin NO Masses, almost everyone is very comfortable in the parishes thank you very much, and the TLM will be utterly foreign. Still, one lives in hope!
Any thoughts?
God bless
Mitch
I am presently in a state of confusion and would appreciate any comments or suggestions.
I live in a very Protestant part (2% Catholic) of a majority Protestant country (7% Catholic): there are several Catholic churches in my city, but no TLM’s, except for the local SSPX chapel, which has Mass twice per month. I started going there, age 19, in 1997, and fell in love with the TLM, especially compared with the Masses I had known growing up, which were standard, English Novus Ordo facing the people, EMHC’s, later also altar girls, fare. I also came to accept the arguments of the SSPX for its legitimacy, its state of necessity arguments, etc. There I met my wife-to-be, who comes from a large, staunch SSPX family, who have been trads since she was 7 years old.
Of late, I have grown concerned about my attending the SSPX, and some of the tendencies and characteristics of many SSPX supporters, and especially my missing Mass on 2-3 Sundays per month. I felt I was in a little sect, cut off from the rest of the Church, surrounded by people who worshipped the SSPX and saw nothing wrong. (NB: I HOPE I AM NOT BEING OFFENSIVE OR BREAKING FORUM RULES) So, this is my present position:
- Relying on what some local Diocesan priests have said, as well as what has emanated from the Pontifical Commission Ecclesia Dei, I attend the SSPX’s Masses, and I believe I am fulfilling my Sunday obligation in doing so.
- However, I have started attending NO Masses on the “in between” Sundays - this deeply upsets and disturbs my wife, who refuses to go, saying it will only confuse and scandalise her. She says this is likely to divide our family - we have 2 kids under 5, and 3rd on the way - and confuse our children. I tend to agree with her. I don’t think it is ideal for children to grow up attending on a regular basis two totally different Masses, where things are allowed which we don’t want to encourage (altar girls, CITH, etc) - now and then, sure, but not regularly.
- I just finished reading Patrick Madrid/Peter Vere’s book “More Catholic Than the Pope” - it’s arguments, though, seem very legalistic and do not seem to take into account the terrible extent of the crisis in the Church, the mass apostasy, the indifference, and the fact that many people - yours truly included - simply do not have access to the fabled “reverent Novus Ordo”, let along a TLM said in good standing with the diocese. If they want dignified Catholic worship, without EMHC’s, communion in the hand, altar girls, etc, the SSPX is it. Also, the book seems dated, as:
b) Statements by Cardinal Hoyos that the SSPX is not a fully-fledged schism;
c) Pope Benedict’s declaration that the TLM was never abolished - which is what trads have been arguing for close to 40 years.
In a nutshell:
a) I believe it is okay to attend the SSPX - is this correct?
b) I have deep problems with the mentality of a lot of trads, and the SSPX - more detail will be given if required - and do not want to be in a sect, but I feel I have no option.
Oh yes - it is POSSIBLE - just POSSIBLE that a TLM will become available in a local parish eventually (long story there) - that will be wonderful - but I am not holding my breath, as there isn’t the “culture” of asking for the TLM, interest in it, or a definite orthodox/liberal divide in Catholicism here, as there is in the US. We’ve never had Indult Masses, or even Latin NO Masses, almost everyone is very comfortable in the parishes thank you very much, and the TLM will be utterly foreign. Still, one lives in hope!
Any thoughts?
God bless
Mitch